Bolt_nayak
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Hey guys, I'm having a problem with premature ejaculation. It's even happening when I'm just kissing someone. Do you know any quick fixes for this?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Premature ejaculations issue
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Pierce Manhammer
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Rub one out before seeing a chick, several here have espoused it, it makes you less needy and calmer.
Chances are if you suffer from PE, you’re a one and done guy as well, which could be an issue.
A simple search for “premature ejaculation” will net you thousands of websites with potential solutions, no one here has pixie dust you can sprinkle on your todger.
Try everything, find your solution, but if you’re not a one and done guy, the suggestion I made might help. If it doesn’t it’s a psychological issue.
Scaramouche
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Hi Bolt,
"Do you know any quick fixes for this?"...The passage of time heals many afflictions LOL.
"Do you know any quick fixes for this?"...The passage of time heals many afflictions LOL.
EyeBRollin
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You’re age is 19?
Enjoy it. In 10 years, most girls will barely get you hard. PE won’t be an issue.
Enjoy it. In 10 years, most girls will barely get you hard. PE won’t be an issue.
MatureDJ
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I was so excited the first time I got to the Land of Glory that it was just a few seconds. 
The next one lasted a bit longer. Since I mostly do coitus with a condom, whenever I have the opportunity to go raw, it is usually pretty quick for the first round , but the next round lasts much longer.
The next one lasted a bit longer. Since I mostly do coitus with a condom, whenever I have the opportunity to go raw, it is usually pretty quick for the first round , but the next round lasts much longer. "She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Bolt_nayak
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Really? I was taking so much stress.I was so excited the first time I got to the Land of Glory that it was just a few seconds.
Learning Curve
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Masturbate at-least 4-5 hours before s3x.
Also, foreplay is important to expand s3x.
Like others said, jerk off before seeing the girl. To last longer during sex, try looking at the wall or something else while you bang her. Try to think about something non sexual.
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I was going to make fun of him but I forgot being that young, that absolutely can happen. The excitement gets to him.
MatureDJ
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I think it's better for the first to go rather quickly, but then reload for a longer encore. That said, at least let that first be inside of her.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.