Bolt_nayak
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Hey guys, I'm having a problem with premature ejaculation. It's even happening when I'm just kissing someone. Do you know any quick fixes for this?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Premature ejaculations issue
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Pierce Manhammer
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Rub one out before seeing a chick, several here have espoused it, it makes you less needy and calmer.
Chances are if you suffer from PE, you’re a one and done guy as well, which could be an issue.
A simple search for “premature ejaculation” will net you thousands of websites with potential solutions, no one here has pixie dust you can sprinkle on your todger.
Try everything, find your solution, but if you’re not a one and done guy, the suggestion I made might help. If it doesn’t it’s a psychological issue.
Scaramouche
Master Don Juan
Hi Bolt,
"Do you know any quick fixes for this?"...The passage of time heals many afflictions LOL.
"Do you know any quick fixes for this?"...The passage of time heals many afflictions LOL.
EyeBRollin
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You’re age is 19?
Enjoy it. In 10 years, most girls will barely get you hard. PE won’t be an issue.
Enjoy it. In 10 years, most girls will barely get you hard. PE won’t be an issue.
MatureDJ
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I was so excited the first time I got to the Land of Glory that it was just a few seconds. 
The next one lasted a bit longer. Since I mostly do coitus with a condom, whenever I have the opportunity to go raw, it is usually pretty quick for the first round , but the next round lasts much longer.
The next one lasted a bit longer. Since I mostly do coitus with a condom, whenever I have the opportunity to go raw, it is usually pretty quick for the first round , but the next round lasts much longer. "You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Bolt_nayak
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Really? I was taking so much stress.I was so excited the first time I got to the Land of Glory that it was just a few seconds.
Learning Curve
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Masturbate at-least 4-5 hours before s3x.
Also, foreplay is important to expand s3x.
Like others said, jerk off before seeing the girl. To last longer during sex, try looking at the wall or something else while you bang her. Try to think about something non sexual.
HaleyBaron
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I was going to make fun of him but I forgot being that young, that absolutely can happen. The excitement gets to him.
MatureDJ
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I think it's better for the first to go rather quickly, but then reload for a longer encore. That said, at least let that first be inside of her.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.