Bolt_nayak
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Hey guys, I'm having a problem with premature ejaculation. It's even happening when I'm just kissing someone. Do you know any quick fixes for this?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Premature ejaculations issue
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Pierce Manhammer
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Rub one out before seeing a chick, several here have espoused it, it makes you less needy and calmer.
Chances are if you suffer from PE, you’re a one and done guy as well, which could be an issue.
A simple search for “premature ejaculation” will net you thousands of websites with potential solutions, no one here has pixie dust you can sprinkle on your todger.
Try everything, find your solution, but if you’re not a one and done guy, the suggestion I made might help. If it doesn’t it’s a psychological issue.
Scaramouche
Master Don Juan
Hi Bolt,
"Do you know any quick fixes for this?"...The passage of time heals many afflictions LOL.
"Do you know any quick fixes for this?"...The passage of time heals many afflictions LOL.
EyeBRollin
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You’re age is 19?
Enjoy it. In 10 years, most girls will barely get you hard. PE won’t be an issue.
Enjoy it. In 10 years, most girls will barely get you hard. PE won’t be an issue.
MatureDJ
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I was so excited the first time I got to the Land of Glory that it was just a few seconds. 
The next one lasted a bit longer. Since I mostly do coitus with a condom, whenever I have the opportunity to go raw, it is usually pretty quick for the first round , but the next round lasts much longer.
The next one lasted a bit longer. Since I mostly do coitus with a condom, whenever I have the opportunity to go raw, it is usually pretty quick for the first round , but the next round lasts much longer. "She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Bolt_nayak
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Really? I was taking so much stress.I was so excited the first time I got to the Land of Glory that it was just a few seconds.
Learning Curve
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Masturbate at-least 4-5 hours before s3x.
Also, foreplay is important to expand s3x.
Like others said, jerk off before seeing the girl. To last longer during sex, try looking at the wall or something else while you bang her. Try to think about something non sexual.
HaleyBaron
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I was going to make fun of him but I forgot being that young, that absolutely can happen. The excitement gets to him.
MatureDJ
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I think it's better for the first to go rather quickly, but then reload for a longer encore. That said, at least let that first be inside of her.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.