"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Premature ejaculations issue

Bolt_nayak

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Hey guys, I'm having a problem with premature ejaculation. It's even happening when I'm just kissing someone. Do you know any quick fixes for this?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Hey guys, I'm having a problem with premature ejaculation. It's even happening when I'm just kissing someone. Do you know any quick fixes for this?
Rub one out before seeing a chick, several here have espoused it, it makes you less needy and calmer.

Chances are if you suffer from PE, you’re a one and done guy as well, which could be an issue.

A simple search for “premature ejaculation” will net you thousands of websites with potential solutions, no one here has pixie dust you can sprinkle on your todger.

Try everything, find your solution, but if you’re not a one and done guy, the suggestion I made might help. If it doesn’t it’s a psychological issue.
 

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Hi Bolt,
"Do you know any quick fixes for this?"...The passage of time heals many afflictions LOL.
 

MatureDJ

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I was so excited the first time I got to the Land of Glory that it was just a few seconds. :mad: The next one lasted a bit longer. Since I mostly do coitus with a condom, whenever I have the opportunity to go raw, it is usually pretty quick for the first round :rolleyes:, but the next round lasts much longer. :)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Bolt_nayak

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I was so excited the first time I got to the Land of Glory that it was just a few seconds. :mad: The next one lasted a bit longer. Since I mostly do coitus with a condom, whenever I have the opportunity to go raw, it is usually pretty quick for the first round :rolleyes:, but the next round lasts much longer. :)
Really? I was taking so much stress.
 

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Hey guys, I'm having a problem with premature ejaculation. It's even happening when I'm just kissing someone. Do you know any quick fixes for this?
Like others said, jerk off before seeing the girl. To last longer during sex, try looking at the wall or something else while you bang her. Try to think about something non sexual.
 

HaleyBaron

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I was going to make fun of him but I forgot being that young, that absolutely can happen. The excitement gets to him.
 

MatureDJ

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Like others said, jerk off before seeing the girl. To last longer during sex, try looking at the wall or something else while you bang her. Try to think about something non sexual.
I think it's better for the first to go rather quickly, but then reload for a longer encore. That said, at least let that first be inside of her. :rolleyes:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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