"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Poll : is this a 9 or a 10 ?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
BackInTheGame78
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I'd say 8 because of no ass...flatter than a pancake. It might send you to the hospital if you tried hard doggystyle on her due to breaking your pubic bone due to lack of cushioning
Who Dares Win
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A legit 8.
Needs more muscle tone and more curves to get into a 9.
Needs more muscle tone and more curves to get into a 9.
AttackFormation
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This again proves how different guys' tastes are and how stupid the "1-10" rating system is. To me she is nothing, and that's before you remove the cosmetics...
zekko
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Attractive girl. I'll give her the benefit of the doubt and give her an 8, based on the first and third pictures. The other two don't do much for me. She's kind of skinny but she's fit, and has a nice face. An 8 from me is really good though, I'm pretty stingy giving those out. I don't believe in 10s, and 9s are crazy rare.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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Face 8
Body 6
Body 6
Kitttydiet88
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She has a pretty face, but no legs or ass so to speak. She has the curves of a lanky teenage boy.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
EyeBRollin
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Nice face. No body. Impossible to be 9 and 10 without desirable lady parts.
metalwater
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first and third pic work for me. the other two, not so much. I like shorter and darker, but the first pic does work for me. 7+ I think; but for me lower, not my taste. definitely OK.
Georgepithyou
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Honestly she has a nice face and eyes but the body is below average, she has the body of a man
If you really want to know a woman's beauty, find her when she's at home, ready for bed, when she is back to "factory settings".
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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She's beautiful, but not really attractive from a sexual point of view.
An 8 on the 1/10 scale, and a "would go out with her" on my scale.
An 8 on the 1/10 scale, and a "would go out with her" on my scale.
You're still salty that I said ur wife is a mere 4.5?
FYI, this girl here is much better then ur wife, she's a minimum of 5.5, a whole point ahead of ur wife.
I did say in the above post that's she's neither ugly nor beautiful = around 5.
Obviously still salty abt it huh....
Well don't shoot the messenger, u r the one who married a below 5 chick, it ain't my fault.
Still immature, and to think that u already hv an adult son.
Take responsibility of ur choices man....
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Now I'm curious to see what String's wife looks like.
The woman in this thread is like a 5, basic *****, no curves.
The woman in this thread is like a 5, basic *****, no curves.
Instasham is the worst to rate a gal as most pics are their best ones and doctored up mostly.
In Europe, she'd be a 7 at most
In the USA, she'd be a 8 at most, only because she's an athlete and she always wears makeup to boost her SMV. I couldn't find any online images in the short search I've done her without makeup.
Here's a less doctored pic.. nothing special IMO...
In Europe, she'd be a 7 at most
In the USA, she'd be a 8 at most, only because she's an athlete and she always wears makeup to boost her SMV. I couldn't find any online images in the short search I've done her without makeup.
Here's a less doctored pic.. nothing special IMO...
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.