"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Poll : is this a 9 or a 10 ?

is this a 9 or a 10 ?


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Lookatu

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I said this before 5"11 is solid

On average, women say a romantic partner 5’3” or shorter is generally too short for comfort, while a partner 6’3” or taller is too tall, and the “ideal” height for a man is 5’11”. The survey also finds that for the average British man, a partner becomes too short at 4’11” and too tall at 6’. The ideal height for a woman, according to the average man, is 5’6”
It's sad that male's fragile ego's has them hamstering about height. I bet women don't nearly hamster as much about weight themselves. Any gal that is less than 5'8" that asks about height is automatically disqualified in my books.

I've been out with some gals that were an inch or two taller than me. It really doesn't matter when you're in the horizontal position. That's what I tell them too.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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zekko

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On average, women say a romantic partner 5’3” or shorter is generally too short for comfort, while a partner 6’3” or taller is too tall, and the “ideal” height for a man is 5’11”. The survey also finds that for the average British man, a partner becomes too short at 4’11” and too tall at 6’. The ideal height for a woman, according to the average man, is 5’6”
5'6" is a nice height for a woman, I'd have to agree with that. My preference would probably be 5'4" to 5'6", but it's nowhere close to being a dealbreaker. I don't think height for women is as big of an attraction factor as it is for men, I doubt if anyone will disagree with that. Maybe if a woman is freakishly tall it comes into play.
 

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On my own personal scale, she'd be a 5. Oh, now I know that for most men, she's the bee's knees, but I like a feminine physique where the shoulders aren't too wide, and the ratio of waist to hips is low, so she would not do it for me. Now if these characteristics were considered to be not be a negative, then she's a 10 based on very good facial beauty and exceptional fitness. To me, she would be the kind of gal that wouldn't be embarrassing in the last to have around, and would definitely suffice to other women as being super hot (i.e., a man that has shown the ability to get that would be considered very high value by other women).

I go for women that I have the exact characteristics that I find most attractive, but that other man might not, which to me optimizes my getability. An extreme case of this would be a man that *genuintely* likes fatties - because so many other men are disgusted by this, such a man would optimize his getability by going for fatties.
 

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she looks like your typical women who exercise to much. solid 8. if she stopped the gym routine for a few months and just ate well she probably bump up to a 9.
Because so many women exercise too much? :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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andreihaha

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I said this before 5"11 is solid

On average, women say a romantic partner 5’3” or shorter is generally too short for comfort, while a partner 6’3” or taller is too tall, and the “ideal” height for a man is 5’11”. The survey also finds that for the average British man, a partner becomes too short at 4’11” and too tall at 6’. The ideal height for a woman, according to the average man, is 5’6”
I'm 6'2'' and women love my height. There is no "ideal height". As long as you're charming, any imperfection seems to fade in their eyes.
 

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You guys I am curious to have your opinion on this chick from all side


She is all over this Youtube channel half naked in every position
SwimOutletGear

Pretty, but with you guys I don't know what's good anymore.
 

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I would put her in the 7 - 8 category however I can't really judge that well from the pictures. She's a slim chick but attractive. Definitely sexable.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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