Fenderules
Master Don Juan
which one are you? just curious to see a ratio. Lol im bored
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Pole: Afc, Major AFc, recovering Afc, or Don Juan
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Fenderules
Master Don Juan
lol gues this poll falls like a lead balloon.........
maby bad example (you get it if your a zep fan)
maby bad example (you get it if your a zep fan)
diablo
Master Don Juan
Anything Else...
Jack McCrack
Senior Don Juan
Almost DJ in my opinion and in my friends' eyes. (You know you're improving when your buddies tell you that you treat girls like sh*t, that your style never works, watching them shower girls with gifts and compliments, and laughing when they fall flat on their face)
Also, brush up on your spelling.
Also, brush up on your spelling.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
cant think of a user name
Master Don Juan
Whoa, more than half of the people (53%) who contributed to this poll declared themselves a "Recovering AFC"!
What does that say about the people who frequent this site? I don't know, but it sends a very clear message:
53% of us need more experience in the field instead of speaking theoretically from the armchair.
Good luck guys =)
What does that say about the people who frequent this site? I don't know, but it sends a very clear message:
53% of us need more experience in the field instead of speaking theoretically from the armchair.
Good luck guys =)
TheSplat
Master Don Juan
Wow, there is nothing even remotely DJ about that? Treating girls like sh*t, then laughing at your friends? At what point are you getting the ladies? And why don't you help your friends out.
The difference between you, a jackass, and me, a DJ, is that I don't treat girls like sh*t. I don't take sh*t off them though. And I get any girl I want, but I also help my friends get any girl they want. Use your knowledge for good, not evil. And if you are a true DJ, alot of guys are going to hate you, so play nice with your friends.
Panda 2000
Senior Don Juan
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I hate those stupid abbreviations and stereotypes.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Fenderules
Master Don Juan
your totally right and im one of them, i need to get this done now. im getting off the computer. later guys
The Bad Ass Canadian
Master Don Juan
I am a Don Juan, I guess...... but then again i could also be considered a recovering AFC...since this is where i started.
This poll is flawed, in that everyone's idea of what each of these catagories stands for will be quite different.
I am a Don Juan, because I finally have control of my life... my career.. I don't take sh!t from no one. I am the leader of my circle of friends (if you can put it that way) and I have only been rejected by one girl over the past 2 yrs.... I've dated about 6 and slept with over 20. All of them were HB9's. Now i finally weeded through all these ladies and I've ound the one who i think I'm gonna marry, eventually. She's perfect in every way.
I think i deserve the title of Don Juan... as do many other guys on here, for what we've accomplished.
The Bad Ass Canadian
This poll is flawed, in that everyone's idea of what each of these catagories stands for will be quite different.
I am a Don Juan, because I finally have control of my life... my career.. I don't take sh!t from no one. I am the leader of my circle of friends (if you can put it that way) and I have only been rejected by one girl over the past 2 yrs.... I've dated about 6 and slept with over 20. All of them were HB9's. Now i finally weeded through all these ladies and I've ound the one who i think I'm gonna marry, eventually. She's perfect in every way.
I think i deserve the title of Don Juan... as do many other guys on here, for what we've accomplished.
The Bad Ass Canadian
The Bad Ass Canadian
Master Don Juan
double post.....
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I-am-someone
Senior Don Juan
This poll is flawed indeed.
Being a Don Juan doesn't exist.
It's a never-ending evolution of ideas, attitudes and a never ending attempt at testing. You get better and better at everything as you live your life improving yourself. However, you will never become a complete Don Juan.
It's kind of like saying "I am a perfect football player". You will never hear those that are truly great saying that, because they know it will never happen.
However, there is that goal in each of our minds, that we strive to accomplish. Unattainable as it is, it is a great goal to pursue.
Keep on improving yourself, learn enjoying the path of self-improvement and you will realise that you will always be "Almost DJ".
Being a Don Juan doesn't exist.
It's a never-ending evolution of ideas, attitudes and a never ending attempt at testing. You get better and better at everything as you live your life improving yourself. However, you will never become a complete Don Juan.
It's kind of like saying "I am a perfect football player". You will never hear those that are truly great saying that, because they know it will never happen.
However, there is that goal in each of our minds, that we strive to accomplish. Unattainable as it is, it is a great goal to pursue.
Keep on improving yourself, learn enjoying the path of self-improvement and you will realise that you will always be "Almost DJ".
The Bad Ass Canadian
Master Don Juan
Absolutely.
I was going to add that bit to my post, but it slipped my mind as i was typing.
There is no roof on this. Plateaus, maybe but there is never a capped limit where there is no more room for improvement.
I guess we are all recovering AFC's and will always be that way, from this perspective.
The Bad Ass Canadian