Fenderules
Master Don Juan
which one are you? just curious to see a ratio. Lol im bored
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Pole: Afc, Major AFc, recovering Afc, or Don Juan
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Fenderules
Master Don Juan
lol gues this poll falls like a lead balloon.........
maby bad example (you get it if your a zep fan)
maby bad example (you get it if your a zep fan)
diablo
Master Don Juan
Anything Else...
Jack McCrack
Senior Don Juan
Almost DJ in my opinion and in my friends' eyes. (You know you're improving when your buddies tell you that you treat girls like sh*t, that your style never works, watching them shower girls with gifts and compliments, and laughing when they fall flat on their face)
Also, brush up on your spelling.
Also, brush up on your spelling.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
cant think of a user name
Master Don Juan
Whoa, more than half of the people (53%) who contributed to this poll declared themselves a "Recovering AFC"!
What does that say about the people who frequent this site? I don't know, but it sends a very clear message:
53% of us need more experience in the field instead of speaking theoretically from the armchair.
Good luck guys =)
What does that say about the people who frequent this site? I don't know, but it sends a very clear message:
53% of us need more experience in the field instead of speaking theoretically from the armchair.
Good luck guys =)
TheSplat
Master Don Juan
Wow, there is nothing even remotely DJ about that? Treating girls like sh*t, then laughing at your friends? At what point are you getting the ladies? And why don't you help your friends out.
The difference between you, a jackass, and me, a DJ, is that I don't treat girls like sh*t. I don't take sh*t off them though. And I get any girl I want, but I also help my friends get any girl they want. Use your knowledge for good, not evil. And if you are a true DJ, alot of guys are going to hate you, so play nice with your friends.
Panda 2000
Senior Don Juan
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I hate those stupid abbreviations and stereotypes.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Fenderules
Master Don Juan
your totally right and im one of them, i need to get this done now. im getting off the computer. later guys
The Bad Ass Canadian
Master Don Juan
I am a Don Juan, I guess...... but then again i could also be considered a recovering AFC...since this is where i started.
This poll is flawed, in that everyone's idea of what each of these catagories stands for will be quite different.
I am a Don Juan, because I finally have control of my life... my career.. I don't take sh!t from no one. I am the leader of my circle of friends (if you can put it that way) and I have only been rejected by one girl over the past 2 yrs.... I've dated about 6 and slept with over 20. All of them were HB9's. Now i finally weeded through all these ladies and I've ound the one who i think I'm gonna marry, eventually. She's perfect in every way.
I think i deserve the title of Don Juan... as do many other guys on here, for what we've accomplished.
The Bad Ass Canadian
This poll is flawed, in that everyone's idea of what each of these catagories stands for will be quite different.
I am a Don Juan, because I finally have control of my life... my career.. I don't take sh!t from no one. I am the leader of my circle of friends (if you can put it that way) and I have only been rejected by one girl over the past 2 yrs.... I've dated about 6 and slept with over 20. All of them were HB9's. Now i finally weeded through all these ladies and I've ound the one who i think I'm gonna marry, eventually. She's perfect in every way.
I think i deserve the title of Don Juan... as do many other guys on here, for what we've accomplished.
The Bad Ass Canadian
The Bad Ass Canadian
Master Don Juan
double post.....
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I-am-someone
Senior Don Juan
This poll is flawed indeed.
Being a Don Juan doesn't exist.
It's a never-ending evolution of ideas, attitudes and a never ending attempt at testing. You get better and better at everything as you live your life improving yourself. However, you will never become a complete Don Juan.
It's kind of like saying "I am a perfect football player". You will never hear those that are truly great saying that, because they know it will never happen.
However, there is that goal in each of our minds, that we strive to accomplish. Unattainable as it is, it is a great goal to pursue.
Keep on improving yourself, learn enjoying the path of self-improvement and you will realise that you will always be "Almost DJ".
Being a Don Juan doesn't exist.
It's a never-ending evolution of ideas, attitudes and a never ending attempt at testing. You get better and better at everything as you live your life improving yourself. However, you will never become a complete Don Juan.
It's kind of like saying "I am a perfect football player". You will never hear those that are truly great saying that, because they know it will never happen.
However, there is that goal in each of our minds, that we strive to accomplish. Unattainable as it is, it is a great goal to pursue.
Keep on improving yourself, learn enjoying the path of self-improvement and you will realise that you will always be "Almost DJ".
The Bad Ass Canadian
Master Don Juan
Absolutely.
I was going to add that bit to my post, but it slipped my mind as i was typing.
There is no roof on this. Plateaus, maybe but there is never a capped limit where there is no more room for improvement.
I guess we are all recovering AFC's and will always be that way, from this perspective.
The Bad Ass Canadian