Fenderules
Master Don Juan
which one are you? just curious to see a ratio. Lol im bored
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Pole: Afc, Major AFc, recovering Afc, or Don Juan
- Thread starter Fenderules
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Fenderules
Master Don Juan
lol gues this poll falls like a lead balloon.........
maby bad example (you get it if your a zep fan)
maby bad example (you get it if your a zep fan)
diablo
Master Don Juan
Anything Else...
Jack McCrack
Senior Don Juan
Almost DJ in my opinion and in my friends' eyes. (You know you're improving when your buddies tell you that you treat girls like sh*t, that your style never works, watching them shower girls with gifts and compliments, and laughing when they fall flat on their face)
Also, brush up on your spelling.
Also, brush up on your spelling.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
cant think of a user name
Master Don Juan
Whoa, more than half of the people (53%) who contributed to this poll declared themselves a "Recovering AFC"!
What does that say about the people who frequent this site? I don't know, but it sends a very clear message:
53% of us need more experience in the field instead of speaking theoretically from the armchair.
Good luck guys =)
What does that say about the people who frequent this site? I don't know, but it sends a very clear message:
53% of us need more experience in the field instead of speaking theoretically from the armchair.
Good luck guys =)
TheSplat
Master Don Juan
Wow, there is nothing even remotely DJ about that? Treating girls like sh*t, then laughing at your friends? At what point are you getting the ladies? And why don't you help your friends out.
The difference between you, a jackass, and me, a DJ, is that I don't treat girls like sh*t. I don't take sh*t off them though. And I get any girl I want, but I also help my friends get any girl they want. Use your knowledge for good, not evil. And if you are a true DJ, alot of guys are going to hate you, so play nice with your friends.
Panda 2000
Senior Don Juan
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I hate those stupid abbreviations and stereotypes.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Fenderules
Master Don Juan
your totally right and im one of them, i need to get this done now. im getting off the computer. later guys
The Bad Ass Canadian
Master Don Juan
I am a Don Juan, I guess...... but then again i could also be considered a recovering AFC...since this is where i started.
This poll is flawed, in that everyone's idea of what each of these catagories stands for will be quite different.
I am a Don Juan, because I finally have control of my life... my career.. I don't take sh!t from no one. I am the leader of my circle of friends (if you can put it that way) and I have only been rejected by one girl over the past 2 yrs.... I've dated about 6 and slept with over 20. All of them were HB9's. Now i finally weeded through all these ladies and I've ound the one who i think I'm gonna marry, eventually. She's perfect in every way.
I think i deserve the title of Don Juan... as do many other guys on here, for what we've accomplished.
The Bad Ass Canadian
This poll is flawed, in that everyone's idea of what each of these catagories stands for will be quite different.
I am a Don Juan, because I finally have control of my life... my career.. I don't take sh!t from no one. I am the leader of my circle of friends (if you can put it that way) and I have only been rejected by one girl over the past 2 yrs.... I've dated about 6 and slept with over 20. All of them were HB9's. Now i finally weeded through all these ladies and I've ound the one who i think I'm gonna marry, eventually. She's perfect in every way.
I think i deserve the title of Don Juan... as do many other guys on here, for what we've accomplished.
The Bad Ass Canadian
The Bad Ass Canadian
Master Don Juan
double post.....
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I-am-someone
Senior Don Juan
This poll is flawed indeed.
Being a Don Juan doesn't exist.
It's a never-ending evolution of ideas, attitudes and a never ending attempt at testing. You get better and better at everything as you live your life improving yourself. However, you will never become a complete Don Juan.
It's kind of like saying "I am a perfect football player". You will never hear those that are truly great saying that, because they know it will never happen.
However, there is that goal in each of our minds, that we strive to accomplish. Unattainable as it is, it is a great goal to pursue.
Keep on improving yourself, learn enjoying the path of self-improvement and you will realise that you will always be "Almost DJ".
Being a Don Juan doesn't exist.
It's a never-ending evolution of ideas, attitudes and a never ending attempt at testing. You get better and better at everything as you live your life improving yourself. However, you will never become a complete Don Juan.
It's kind of like saying "I am a perfect football player". You will never hear those that are truly great saying that, because they know it will never happen.
However, there is that goal in each of our minds, that we strive to accomplish. Unattainable as it is, it is a great goal to pursue.
Keep on improving yourself, learn enjoying the path of self-improvement and you will realise that you will always be "Almost DJ".
The Bad Ass Canadian
Master Don Juan
Absolutely.
I was going to add that bit to my post, but it slipped my mind as i was typing.
There is no roof on this. Plateaus, maybe but there is never a capped limit where there is no more room for improvement.
I guess we are all recovering AFC's and will always be that way, from this perspective.
The Bad Ass Canadian