Plinco's cold approach journal

[Arete]

Hey Plinco, I just wanted to say I think it's great you have this much grit. Most people I know don't have that. Even if they do, they typically lose that trait at around 30-40 years old. Don't let anyone talk you down, and just pursue your goals, but you already know this.

Personally, I believe some people will act in certain ways because the effort of some proves the laziness of many.

Also, your line "A cringe man will always think he is based, but the based man is truthful to his cringe self." resonates with me a lot.

It's fine to be different, because extraordinary people are different from the average by definition, is how I interpret it.

 

[Plinco]

Hey Plinco, I just wanted to say I think it's great you have this much grit. Most people I know don't have that. Even if they do, they typically lose that trait at around 30-40 years old. Don't let anyone talk you down, and just pursue your goals, but you already know this.

Personally, I believe some people will act in certain ways because the effort of some proves the laziness of many.

Also, your line "A cringe man will always think he is based, but the based man is truthful to his cringe self." resonates with me a lot.

It's fine to be different, because extraordinary people are different from the average by definition, is how I interpret it.

That's a good attitude.

What I like to say sometimes is this, "Life would be pretty boring if we were all perfect"

Just keep your focus on your goals, and whatever you want to be is who you already are, you just have to work to bring it out. Think about a sculptor who chisels the statue that he already has in his mind, out of the block of marble.

 

[Plinco]

I've been going to my favorite spot every thursday night, and I've socialized a bit here and there. My persistence is slowly paying off but I need to set time aside and stay there later at night. I've been leaving there around midnight because I have to work the next day.

There's so many women whom I want to approach, but most of them have x's on the back of their hand and I've been told that I can't approach these girls. I need to go to Orlando again.

 

[Plinco]

I'll be going on a date with this girl in about four hours. She's decently pretty, she's 19, and I'm interested in her.

I can't sleep because I looked at my texting game thread and got angry looking at it again. I fail to understand why rejecting a woman would get the reaction that it did. If anything I thought it demonstrates having a self-esteem and having options. The other thing was some of the slander I got from people, ranging from saying that I had an obligation to 'listen' and that I fail to take advice even though I didn't ask for it, to diagnosing me with having a personality disorder, to implying that I should be banned because I don't take advice that I didn't ask for.

I've stopped asking for advice a while ago and I have no obligation to 'listen' to anyone.

 

[retardedautist2020]

I can't sleep because I looked at my texting game thread and got angry looking at it again.

RENT FREE

 

[Plinco]

I'll be going on a date with this girl in about four hours. She's decently pretty, she's 19, and I'm interested in her.

I can't sleep because I looked at my texting game thread and got angry looking at it again. I fail to understand why rejecting a woman would get the reaction that it did. If anything I thought it demonstrates having a self-esteem and having options. The other thing was some of the slander I got from people, ranging from saying that I had an obligation to 'listen' and that I fail to take advice even though I didn't ask for it, to diagnosing me with having a personality disorder, to implying that I should be banned because I don't take advice that I didn't ask for.

I've stopped asking for advice a while ago and I have no obligation to 'listen' to anyone.

Update: I think I handled this well.

RENT FREE

 

[BackInTheGame78]

She is sarting with the excuses I see alresdy

 

[BPH]

Update: I think I handled this well.

You consider angrily DMing me at 5 AM "handling this well"?

 

[retardedautist2020]

You consider angrily DMing me at 5 AM "handling this well"?

Bro what happened lmao

 

[ManFromTartarus]

 

[Plinco]

You consider angrily DMing me at 5 AM "handling this well"?

Well if I made it clear to you then yes. Plus I'd rather keep conflicts like that in private.

 

[BPH]

Bro what happened lmao

I'm not gonna bother derailing the thread; I'm already exhausted.

If others want to waste their time, they are welcome to continue doing so.

 

[retardedautist2020]

Yep. It is exhausting.

 

[Plinco]

Here's a more detailed update about what's going on

I've been working my @ss off; I've been working six days per week give or take. I have another month of this (until mid October)


I'm getting the attention of a ton of 30+ year old women, both from in person and online, but not too much from my target 18-20





Cold approaches

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March 1

April 37

May 28

June 9

July 3

August 5

September so far 2

103 year to date




There's two lays:

1.) This girl

I almost got laid tonight

I just came home and there's a lot to digest here. So there's this really cute girl I met on tinder and we've been chatting and finally met up tonight. To make a long story short, she's totally into it and she wants to go back to her place since it was closer than where I live. That was a...

www.sosuave.net

I saw this girl again a week and a half later. She agreed to hang out with me again and so we went to a bowling alley that was closer to where she lived, then we went back to the beach, and then hung out at a causeway at a park. That time I actually got her to my house and fully got laid. I've tried to get her again but she's getting more and more flaky.

2.) The second is a 35 yo woman nsa situation. She's the daughter of one of my customers who just moved to my area from Orlando. I'm dirty scruffy from mowing yards and she came out to bring me some money from her mom. As dirty and sweaty as I was, she just flirts with me. To make a long story short, her and I both agreed that neither of us are looking for a relationship but she likes to f*ck. I can pretty much get laid whenever I want to.


I'd rather have the 20 yo than the 35 yo, not just the sex but everything else. I'm more compatible with younger women. The sex is fine but it's not the goal. Younger women fulfill my relationship needs much better on average. I'm much more emotionally engaging with the 20 yo than the 35 yo. The 35 yo is more cheerful, which is a good thing, and she doesn't take herself too seriously, but she doesn't have the energy.



I went on a date with a 32 year old woman but I just didn't feel right about it; she just felt too old and mature for me.

I matched recently with a cute 18 yo on Hinge. I don't think she's my type so I'm trying to friend zone her and see if she wants to hang out with me at the place I dance at.

The 19 yo I recently matched with ended up flaking on me.


I've been slowly making inroads at the place I dance at. There's a handful of people who I talk to a bit while I'm there. It's good to socialize and build acquaintances, especially in that age group. There's girls in there who I want to approach but I've been told not to.



My situation is a bit of an improvement than it was three months ago, but it's still not where I want to be. My target for dating is 18-20 mostly, with some early 20's mixed in there too. A nsa relationship would be better with a girl who is around 20 than in her 30's, and instead of having options of 30+ year old women, I want to get to having many options of 18-20 year old women, and finding one whom I'm really compatible with.

 

[Plinco]

09/24/26

I'm getting to be a good dancer, mixing in some break dance moves into my line dancing.

The bouncer who told me not to hit on women there said that I can hit on women but they have to be over 21, but I told him that I'm mostly attracted to the girls who have the 'x' on the back of their hands (18-20). He thought it was funny but was also a bit shocked. I told him that I just won't hit on girls there at all then.

I used to be a really good conversationalist. I'm getting that skill back.

I'm making warm approaches almost every time I go somewhere, but I only count cold approaches, which I'm itching to do those.

 

[BPH]

The bouncer who told me not to hit on women there said that I can hit on women but they have to be over 21, but I told him that I'm mostly attracted to the girls who have the 'x' on the back of their hands (18-20).

Admitting to security at one of your favorite and most frequented venues that you prefer barely legal girls, after he tried to give you some leeway, is absolutely wild...

 

[Plinco]

Admitting to security at one of your favorite and most frequented venues that you prefer barely legal girls, after he tried to give you some leeway, is absolutely wild...

hahaha))

Life would be boring if we were all perfect

but I won't break the law or violate the rights of others. I just want live my life as productively as I can and be happy.