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Hey Plinco, I just wanted to say I think it's great you have this much grit. Most people I know don't have that. Even if they do, they typically lose that trait at around 30-40 years old. Don't let anyone talk you down, and just pursue your goals, but you already know this.

Personally, I believe some people will act in certain ways because the effort of some proves the laziness of many.

Also, your line "A cringe man will always think he is based, but the based man is truthful to his cringe self." resonates with me a lot.

It's fine to be different, because extraordinary people are different from the average by definition, is how I interpret it.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Hey Plinco, I just wanted to say I think it's great you have this much grit. Most people I know don't have that. Even if they do, they typically lose that trait at around 30-40 years old. Don't let anyone talk you down, and just pursue your goals, but you already know this.

Personally, I believe some people will act in certain ways because the effort of some proves the laziness of many.

Also, your line "A cringe man will always think he is based, but the based man is truthful to his cringe self." resonates with me a lot.

It's fine to be different, because extraordinary people are different from the average by definition, is how I interpret it.
That's a good attitude.

What I like to say sometimes is this, "Life would be pretty boring if we were all perfect"

Just keep your focus on your goals, and whatever you want to be is who you already are, you just have to work to bring it out. Think about a sculptor who chisels the statue that he already has in his mind, out of the block of marble.
 

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I've been going to my favorite spot every thursday night, and I've socialized a bit here and there. My persistence is slowly paying off but I need to set time aside and stay there later at night. I've been leaving there around midnight because I have to work the next day.

There's so many women whom I want to approach, but most of them have x's on the back of their hand and I've been told that I can't approach these girls. I need to go to Orlando again.
 
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