Plinco
Master Don Juan
It's time I update this pile of fcuk
10/15-10/16
Headed out to Orlando on a Thursday night. My three objectives were 1. humanize 2. remain emotionally present 3. Make at least five cold approaches. I made a total of six, and sought to push the envelope on remaining emotionally present. I would say technically mission accomplished, but it's bare minimum. What I should have done was to mass approach. I tried to target approach and drill down with conversation, but what I found out was that statistically my approach to conversation ratio is 5:1 roughly. Out of the six approaches, I had one short conversation, four cold shoulders. Something I should add too, is some of the negative feedback I was getting were some of the young men there. I noticed my mood depending on what they think, more so than people who are older.
10/22-10/23
I went to my line dancing place and did more socializing than I usually do. It felt great! I did a warm approach of the girl that I've had a crush on for months and she shot me down immediately.
10/22
A met a 3.5/10 24yo woman, whom I warm approach (I don't count warm approaches as a direct approach, because I do warm approaches practically every time I leave my house and not at work). I wasn't crazy for how she looked, but she seemed really cool so I set up a date with her walking around a park a few days later.
10/23-10/24
Went to Orlando on a Friday night and left early because there was hardly anyone there. Those who were there were not my crowd. I went to Orlando with the goal of doing at least 15 direct cold approaches while staying emotionally present. There were only a few girls I could have approached, but didn't feel compelled to. Most of what I saw were couples and older people there to drink alcohol at the bars. A bouncer told me that it's not as busy as a Thursday night would be. I wasn't interested in those women's low energy. I think of how else to explain it. I left feeling frustrated because I drove an hour and a half looking forward to making some kind of progress only to leave empty handed and drive back another hour and a half. The bouncer and I had a short conversation but then turned away from me to talk to another bouncer; I felt very little if any emotional investment in the conversation.
10/24
Number closed from a direct cold approach from a 6.5/10 27yo Brazilian woman at a grocery store. Messaged with her a bit on whatsapp a set up a date with her
10/25
I ended up banging the 3.5/10 24yo woman. She had a really cool personality, but she felt a bit too mature for me. Then she drops on me later that she is a single mom. She also says that her grandma suggested that she date older men, which I was a little humored and offended by that. She said to me that she didn't want to get serous with me, but liked hanging around me; we banged again on 11/03. Despite being 18 years or so younger, I think she's still a bit too mature for me.
Later that same day I went on a coffee date with the Brazilian woman, and it went really well. She's super cool, and we still chat, but again I think she's a bit too mature for me, despite being 15 years younger.
10/15-10/16
Headed out to Orlando on a Thursday night. My three objectives were 1. humanize 2. remain emotionally present 3. Make at least five cold approaches. I made a total of six, and sought to push the envelope on remaining emotionally present. I would say technically mission accomplished, but it's bare minimum. What I should have done was to mass approach. I tried to target approach and drill down with conversation, but what I found out was that statistically my approach to conversation ratio is 5:1 roughly. Out of the six approaches, I had one short conversation, four cold shoulders. Something I should add too, is some of the negative feedback I was getting were some of the young men there. I noticed my mood depending on what they think, more so than people who are older.
10/22-10/23
I went to my line dancing place and did more socializing than I usually do. It felt great! I did a warm approach of the girl that I've had a crush on for months and she shot me down immediately.
10/22
A met a 3.5/10 24yo woman, whom I warm approach (I don't count warm approaches as a direct approach, because I do warm approaches practically every time I leave my house and not at work). I wasn't crazy for how she looked, but she seemed really cool so I set up a date with her walking around a park a few days later.
10/23-10/24
Went to Orlando on a Friday night and left early because there was hardly anyone there. Those who were there were not my crowd. I went to Orlando with the goal of doing at least 15 direct cold approaches while staying emotionally present. There were only a few girls I could have approached, but didn't feel compelled to. Most of what I saw were couples and older people there to drink alcohol at the bars. A bouncer told me that it's not as busy as a Thursday night would be. I wasn't interested in those women's low energy. I think of how else to explain it. I left feeling frustrated because I drove an hour and a half looking forward to making some kind of progress only to leave empty handed and drive back another hour and a half. The bouncer and I had a short conversation but then turned away from me to talk to another bouncer; I felt very little if any emotional investment in the conversation.
10/24
Number closed from a direct cold approach from a 6.5/10 27yo Brazilian woman at a grocery store. Messaged with her a bit on whatsapp a set up a date with her
10/25
I ended up banging the 3.5/10 24yo woman. She had a really cool personality, but she felt a bit too mature for me. Then she drops on me later that she is a single mom. She also says that her grandma suggested that she date older men, which I was a little humored and offended by that. She said to me that she didn't want to get serous with me, but liked hanging around me; we banged again on 11/03. Despite being 18 years or so younger, I think she's still a bit too mature for me.
Later that same day I went on a coffee date with the Brazilian woman, and it went really well. She's super cool, and we still chat, but again I think she's a bit too mature for me, despite being 15 years younger.