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Hey Plinco, I just wanted to say I think it's great you have this much grit. Most people I know don't have that. Even if they do, they typically lose that trait at around 30-40 years old. Don't let anyone talk you down, and just pursue your goals, but you already know this.

Personally, I believe some people will act in certain ways because the effort of some proves the laziness of many.

Also, your line "A cringe man will always think he is based, but the based man is truthful to his cringe self." resonates with me a lot.

It's fine to be different, because extraordinary people are different from the average by definition, is how I interpret it.
 

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Plinco

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Hey Plinco, I just wanted to say I think it's great you have this much grit. Most people I know don't have that. Even if they do, they typically lose that trait at around 30-40 years old. Don't let anyone talk you down, and just pursue your goals, but you already know this.

Personally, I believe some people will act in certain ways because the effort of some proves the laziness of many.

Also, your line "A cringe man will always think he is based, but the based man is truthful to his cringe self." resonates with me a lot.

It's fine to be different, because extraordinary people are different from the average by definition, is how I interpret it.
That's a good attitude.

What I like to say sometimes is this, "Life would be pretty boring if we were all perfect"

Just keep your focus on your goals, and whatever you want to be is who you already are, you just have to work to bring it out. Think about a sculptor who chisels the statue that he already has in his mind, out of the block of marble.
 

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I've been going to my favorite spot every thursday night, and I've socialized a bit here and there. My persistence is slowly paying off but I need to set time aside and stay there later at night. I've been leaving there around midnight because I have to work the next day.

There's so many women whom I want to approach, but most of them have x's on the back of their hand and I've been told that I can't approach these girls. I need to go to Orlando again.
 

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I'll be going on a date with this girl in about four hours. She's decently pretty, she's 19, and I'm interested in her.

I can't sleep because I looked at my texting game thread and got angry looking at it again. I fail to understand why rejecting a woman would get the reaction that it did. If anything I thought it demonstrates having a self-esteem and having options. The other thing was some of the slander I got from people, ranging from saying that I had an obligation to 'listen' and that I fail to take advice even though I didn't ask for it, to diagnosing me with having a personality disorder, to implying that I should be banned because I don't take advice that I didn't ask for.

I've stopped asking for advice a while ago and I have no obligation to 'listen' to anyone.
 

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I'll be going on a date with this girl in about four hours. She's decently pretty, she's 19, and I'm interested in her.

I can't sleep because I looked at my texting game thread and got angry looking at it again. I fail to understand why rejecting a woman would get the reaction that it did. If anything I thought it demonstrates having a self-esteem and having options. The other thing was some of the slander I got from people, ranging from saying that I had an obligation to 'listen' and that I fail to take advice even though I didn't ask for it, to diagnosing me with having a personality disorder, to implying that I should be banned because I don't take advice that I didn't ask for.

I've stopped asking for advice a while ago and I have no obligation to 'listen' to anyone.
Update: I think I handled this well.

RENT FREE
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You consider angrily DMing me at 5 AM "handling this well"?
Well if I made it clear to you then yes. Plus I'd rather keep conflicts like that in private.
 
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Bro what happened lmao
I'm not gonna bother derailing the thread; I'm already exhausted.

If others want to waste their time, they are welcome to continue doing so.
 
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