Physical Preferences

[The Duke]

As guys we are probably more visual than women and have many physical preferences when it comes to beauty standards for the opposite sex.

Women do make a big deal about male height and hair when it comes to online dating, but are less strict about that if they meet you in public. How about you?
Do your physical preferences for women change for women online vs. in public? Do you have physical dealbreakers?
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My physical requirements for women are the same no matter how I meet them. I won't even consider a girl that is 15 or more pounds overweight or has short hair. Also small b00bs are not mine thing at all. I used to date a girl that had fake b00bs and when she got them out she was left with some flat miniature pancakes that I struggled to get past. Girls that have no curves and straight hips like guys are also gross to me.

I really can't complain about women and their preference for height and hair, when my preferences are far more stringent.

 

[UK manc]

Natural indicators of good health.

A healthy bodyweight, bright eyes, good skin, no tattoos and usually cheerful (people can have bad days).

 

[Doctor Europeo]

No tattoos, smoking, excessive makeup, piercings, short hair, or feminazi colored hair.

 

[Identikit_Radiohead]

I like healthy weight or slim/thin, average face, longish to medium length hair, small boobs.

No overweight or obese, or butch.

 

[crowolf]

Long and healthy (brown) hair, dark eyes, soft lips, cute face, feminine softness also on the inside - that's my type.

My dealbreakers are: too tall, arrogant, too basic, too much makeup on, smokes, drinks coke, has unhealthy hair, or some bad pimples on her body, walks like a transformer, etc...

I wonder if the main preference of everyone is related to their first romantic/intimate experience... Such is my case.

 

[Gamisch]

I cant lie I'm a dog...I like both skinny and thick women...sometimes I can even be attracted to a " unattractive " women who has some kinda x factor....(hb6 )

All colours too . . darkskinned ,blonde/ redhead /brunette ,Asian..perhaps Arabic women have a slight edge to me but thats due to the "forbidden fruit " factor.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

I'm attracted to a pretty wide variety of women...honestly if they look like they are going to be fire in the bedroom and are above average looking I'm good.

Some of the best sex I've ever had has been with women with less endowed chests...almost like they know they have to try harder.

 

[zekko]

Do your physical preferences for women change for women online vs. in public? Do you have physical dealbreakers

I have very few dealbreakers.
Speaking of height, I prefer shorter girls ("shawties"), ideally 5-2' to 5-6", but it's not a dealbreaker. Don't think I would like it if she was taller than I am though (5'10").
Definitely prefer no tattoos at all. I wouldn't reject for one or two small tasteful ones, I guess, but I don't like them. Obviously sleeves or the like are out.
Thin is better but I'm okay with a little extra weight, depending on how they carry it. I am a breast man so sometimes the larger breasts can be worth the trade off for a little more weight. Small boobs can be okay too, but she'd better be fit.

 

[Clockwerk50]

I don’t smoke, and I tend to be most attracted to people who maintain a healthy lifestyle.

One common denominator among the women I’ve dated is that they tend to have distinctive eye colours, such as green, honey, or blue. I also used to be opposed to tattoos, but I’ve become more open-minded, especially when they’re thoughtfully chosen and suit the person.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

I don’t smoke, and I tend to be most attracted to people who maintain a healthy lifestyle.

One common denominator among the women I’ve dated is that they tend to have distinctive eye colours, such as green, honey, or blue. I also used to be opposed to tattoos, but I’ve become more open-minded, especially when they’re thoughtfully chosen and suit the person.

Oh..smoking is out for me...I don't even like weed so anyone who is a weed head is out too. Once in a while, whatever.

But I didn't mention that since that technically isn't a physical trait

 

[Plinco]

“Tell me what a man finds sexually attractive and I will tell you his entire philosophy on life. Show me the woman he sleeps with and I will tell you his valuation of himself. No matter what corruption he’s taught about the virtue of selflessness, sex is the most profoundly selfish of all acts, an act which he cannot perform for any motive but his own enjoyment–just try to think of performing it in a spirit of selfless charity!–an act which is not possible in self-abasement, only in self-exaltation, only in confidence of being desired and being worthy of desire.”

― Ayn Rand

 

[Plinco]

“Tell me what a man finds sexually attractive and I will tell you his entire philosophy on life. Show me the woman he sleeps with and I will tell you his valuation of himself. No matter what corruption he’s taught about the virtue of selflessness, sex is the most profoundly selfish of all acts, an act which he cannot perform for any motive but his own enjoyment–just try to think of performing it in a spirit of selfless charity!–an act which is not possible in self-abasement, only in self-exaltation, only in confidence of being desired and being worthy of desire.”

" Sex is one of the most important aspects of man’s life and, therefore, must never be approached lightly or casually. A sexual relationship is proper only on the ground of the highest values one can find in a human being. Sex must not be anything other than a response to values. And that is why I consider promiscuity immoral. Not because sex is evil, but because sex is too good and too important . . . . "

― Ayn Rand

This is why I reject women who don't fit my criteria.

This discussion is conceptually similar to this thread:

Pics - Post a pic of what you think is HB10

I want to see what everyone thinks is HB10, it should be interesting. Since attraction is genetic (i.e. what one person likes strongly another won't). I'll post mine once I find it rofl. Rules Choose two pics, one real, one not! Then everyone can be satisfied :P

www.sosuave.net

 

[Cheeky_James]

A good body primarily.
I’d be happy enough with a ‘butterface’ chick with a banging body, thats usually the best I can get ( for casual ) anyways..

As the old saying goes
“You don’t look at the mantelpiece when you’re poking the fire “!

 

[Sega Genesis]

As the old saying goes
“You don’t look at the mantelpiece when you’re poking the fire “!

I don't know what kind of sex you're having but that is absolutely NOT true.

I hope to god you're not just jackhammering her CJ... haha

 

[Cheeky_James]

I don't know what kind of sex you're having but that is absolutely NOT true.

I hope to god you're not just jackhammering her CJ... haha

well… if you think about it, it’s mostly true

 

[Sega Genesis]

well… if you think about it, it’s mostly true

Someone should create a thread "what are/were your best, hottest, most erotic sexual positions or sexual things you ever did with your partner whether steady, a plate or random ONS."

I bet it would be an interesting discussion!

 

[BillyPilgrim]

“Tell me what a man finds sexually attractive and I will tell you his entire philosophy on life. Show me the woman he sleeps with and I will tell you his valuation of himself. No matter what corruption he’s taught about the virtue of selflessness, sex is the most profoundly selfish of all acts, an act which he cannot perform for any motive but his own enjoyment–just try to think of performing it in a spirit of selfless charity!–an act which is not possible in self-abasement, only in self-exaltation, only in confidence of being desired and being worthy of desire.”

" Sex is one of the most important aspects of man’s life and, therefore, must never be approached lightly or casually. A sexual relationship is proper only on the ground of the highest values one can find in a human being. Sex must not be anything other than a response to values. And that is why I consider promiscuity immoral. Not because sex is evil, but because sex is too good and too important . . . . "

― Ayn Rand

If you randomly arranged the words in the quotes above, it would make about the same amount of sense.

Give me back my time, Plinco.

 

[Plinco]

If you randomly arranged the words in the quotes above, it would make about the same amount of sense.

Give me back my time, Plinco.

No refunds bud but I'll do a product recall

eh what the he11, this is my kind of girl:

https://www.imdb.com/name/nm12206250/mediaviewer/rm2598187777/?ref_=nmmi_mi_3

 

[BillyPilgrim]

No refunds bud but I'll do a product recall

eh what the he11, this is my kind of girl:

https://www.imdb.com/name/nm12206250/mediaviewer/rm2598187777/?ref_=nmmi_mi_3

It looks like the message is "be selfish when it comes to sex, but promiscuity is immoral", which implies serve yourself but starve yourself by holding out for the best you can get. Which jibes with some of your threads actually lol.

Nice of you to erase the "promiscuity is immoral" part, but hopefully someone else is saved the minor headache.

 

[Plinco]

It looks like the message is "be selfish when it comes to sex, but promiscuity is immoral", which implies serve yourself but starve yourself by holding out for the best you can get. Which jibes with some of your threads actually lol.

Nice of you to erase the "promiscuity is immoral" part, but hopefully someone else is saved the minor headache.

Ayn Rand was operating from a philosophic system, in which she concluded that selfishness is moral as long as it is rational and sex is so much of an important integration of values that to cheapen it would be a dis-value to the individual.

Which of my threads does this jibe with?