No cash. Fill up her car for the trip home, next time she visits,
This is a slippery slope my friend. She complains about money and then you give her cash? She may start complaining about money a lot. you have to make sure you're not feeding/breeding Pavlov's dog.
Spidey sense is tingling. Is this her m.o. with men?
Hey Sazc I really don't think she is setting a trap.. this chick knows deep inside I don't play like that.
When she mentioned maxing out her card, she was quite drunk.. and she has offered to pay for drinks and food when we have gone out.
So i doubt very much, she wants me to pay shyte..
However financially I am waaay better off than her, so I was just being thoughtful.
Her fuel costs must be hitting her pocket as she travels quite a long distance.. So £20 or £30 occasionally to cover her costs doesn't mean shyte to me.
Or.. better still... I pay for her drinks, food, treat her occasionally and leave it at that. No cash handed over!