Paying For A Plates Fuel Costs? Yes Or No

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I would chip it in maybe $20 once a month but the maxed out credit card thing... Everyone has trouble with their finances. Also, she’s just a plate so keep in mind what she does for you and if it’s worth it.

Maybe she just needed to vent. I don’t think she actually wants your help.

You already provide alcohol and food. She probably drives a car that gets good gas. I spend about $50 a week on gas and if I can do it, a grown ass woman can too.

I agree with the others but it can’t hurt to do what @RangerMIke said to do once. It’s all about how you frame it, don’t make a big deal out of it. This could be a sh*t test but it also could be a red flag.

You risk $20 if you do it once and avoid a possible headache in the future or you pass a sh*t test and it’s never brought up again.
 

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I would chip it in maybe $20 once a month but the maxed out credit card thing... Everyone has trouble with their finances. Also, she’s just a plate so keep in mind what she does for you and if it’s worth it.

Maybe she just needed to vent. I don’t think she actually wants your help.

You already provide alcohol and food. She probably drives a car that gets good gas. I spend about $50 a week on gas and if I can do it, a grown ass woman can too.

I agree with the others but it can’t hurt to do what @RangerMIke said to do once. It’s all about how you frame it, don’t make a big deal out of it. This could be a sh*t test but it also could be a red flag.

You risk $20 if you do it once and avoid a possible headache in the future or you pass a sh*t test and it’s never brought up again.
Sh!t not me...I have a 0 creedit card balance.
 

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Sh!t not me...I have a 0 creedit card balance.
I dont even own a credit card. I have business accounts, business debit cards, business investments and the same on the personal accounts (checking, savings, retirement and investments).

I never liked the idea of spending money that you either didnt have or it didnt come directly out of an existing account of money.
 

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There is a major detail here that everyone is missing that must be taken into consideration. And its not only gas money, buying dinner, etc.

If she expects you to do it, it will not feel right. If she allows you to do it on your own because you want to, all is good.

I have no problem helping a friend out here and there and have done so many times. I've had friends come up to me and discretely ask me to borrow anywhere from $200 to $5000. They did it in a very humble way and I know they didnt have another immediate option if they were coming to me as a friend. I never told them no and they all paid me back.

Now if they would have came to me EXPECTING it from me just because I had it, I would have told them no.

Thats the difference.

I am a good friend to those I care about. Not a fvcking bank.
Spot on
But when you do it too often it turns into expectation. Thats where you dont want to be.
 

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I've done it after the bang. I have one plate that is super nuts but never ceases to impress me in bed multiple times a night and whenever I want it and is probably a 8-9. She doesn't ask for gas money and doesn't expect it. She has many financial issues and maybe $100 to her name at all times and she does tend to spend that on me when i see her.
 

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If she's free, she's a slut....if you pay, she's a wh0re.
 

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Bang her. Wake up early the next morning, take her car and put some gas in it. Say nothing
 

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Well this is the fine line gentleman.

She hasn't directly asked for anything from me.. But I can tell my finances are much better than hers are.

Her coming over EVERY week for me to go BALLS DEEP inside, must be costing her a good whack, and probably hurting her pocket.

Keep in mind I will NEVER travel for her!

What I don't want is for her to start EXPECTING it moving forward.. I doubt she would though.

Again my question, would she consider this a BETA move? With my offer to cover some of her gas occasionally.

Or maybe I should just take the hoe out and by her some drinks instead of giving her cash?
 

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Well this is the fine line gentleman.

She hasn't directly asked for anything from me.. But I can tell my finances are much better than hers are.

Her coming over EVERY week for me to go BALLS DEEP inside, must be costing her a good whack, and probably hurting her pocket.

Keep in mind I will NEVER travel for her!

What I don't want is for her to start EXPECTING it moving forward.. I doubt she would though.

Again my question, would she consider this a BETA move? With my offer to cover some of her gas occasionally.

Or maybe I should just take the hoe out and by her some drinks instead of giving her cash?
Looks like she is investing more in you than you are in her.
I think thats good because it keeps you in the driving seats
 

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LOL I don't see it as a problem, as long as you're banging her how you want to.
 

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I dont even own a credit card. I have business accounts, business debit cards, business investments and the same on the personal accounts (checking, savings, retirement and investments).

I never liked the idea of spending money that you either didnt have or it didnt come directly out of an existing account of money.
I use a card that accumulates cash back to pretty much buy everything and then pay it off every month...it basically gives me free money.
 

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Well this is the fine line gentleman.

She hasn't directly asked for anything from me.. But I can tell my finances are much better than hers are.

Her coming over EVERY week for me to go BALLS DEEP inside, must be costing her a good whack, and probably hurting her pocket.

Keep in mind I will NEVER travel for her!

What I don't want is for her to start EXPECTING it moving forward.. I doubt she would though.

Again my question, would she consider this a BETA move? With my offer to cover some of her gas occasionally.

Or maybe I should just take the hoe out and by her some drinks instead of giving her cash?
I usually reward the plates who travel for me by at least getting decent takeout and the occasional dinner so it feels fair. Two hour round trip paying gas and tolls deserves some kind of considerate gesture on my end.
 

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My model plate last weekend was moaning about how chitty her finances are, with her maxing out her credit card.

So if a plate is driving just over an hour to your house and another hour journey back home the next day & repeating that every weekend.

Over the month thats a considerable about of money on fuel costs.

If a plate comes over like clockwork, svcks you and fvks you good.

I don't travel an inch for her and never will..

Would you occasionally toss her some cash to cover some of her fuel?

I literally spend shyte on her, other than provide the alcohol and food at my house!
Similar to dating, I don't do it. Casual hang. Smash asap. I won't drive her home. At best, I call her a uber. Not paying for it.
 

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Don’t give her money. That will pollute the romantic energy.

Show her your appreciation by treating her well. That’s a repay much greater than what money can buy.

Its difficult to treat her well, when she is wearing a ball gag and restraints and i'm going balls deep in her Ass.. But I get your point.

Rather than give her cash, which may even embaress her a little.

Instead I will pay for her drinks and treat her to some food.
 
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That is the type of mentality that will have her maxing out your generosity sooner or later.
The word "boundaries" comes to mind.

she will eventually start driving all over the place knowing she’s getting a full tank from you.
He shouldn't give a full tank, if he's going to be nice he should occasionally cover the cost of the trip. Never more than half, not enough for her to profit in any way (other than coming over).

“Babe, can you be a doll and spot me some grocery money this week too”?
Hard no! If I ever heard that I'd toss her out in a heartbeat.
 

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Remember @soulforge ... just like with your ex, every person/event serves as a lesson.

Seems to me that between this plate and your other one, you are learning about investments, whereas this one you have made none, and the other one, you have made much.

Perhaps, the focus on befitting investments are in order ;)
 

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If she svcking you off and letting you go b@lls deep then it aint a problem to give her a $20 for gas....however long term with this girl is a definite no-no as she has maxed out her credit cards which implies irresponsibility....
This chick is interested in having threesomes and foursomes with me..Her maxed out card isn't what ruled her out for a LTR

She has also done nude modelling.. However she is a solid 9/10
 

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Well this is the fine line gentleman.

She hasn't directly asked for anything from me.. But I can tell my finances are much better than hers are.

Her coming over EVERY week for me to go BALLS DEEP inside, must be costing her a good whack, and probably hurting her pocket.

Keep in mind I will NEVER travel for her!

What I don't want is for her to start EXPECTING it moving forward.. I doubt she would though.

Again my question, would she consider this a BETA move? With my offer to cover some of her gas occasionally.

Or maybe I should just take the hoe out and by her some drinks instead of giving her cash?
If you wouldn’t lend a friend of yours $20 for gas, when they’re struggling financially, then don’t do it.

It’s the thought that counts, really. If she keeps coming back to you for money after the fact, then you have an issue.

But seeing how she’s just a fwb, doing nothing might be better but it also might hurt you. In my experience, fwb get really fragile after a couple of sessions and will look for any excuse to drop you.
 

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Giving her Cash may open up some next level drama.

01. She may find it embarrassing
02. She may start expecting it

If I pay for her drinks when we go out.. And pay for the odd meal, I feel that would be the safest option.

She pays ONLY for her fuel.. She gets my dik, drinks and food.

Seems like a fair deal.
 
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