Paying For A Plates Fuel Costs? Yes Or No

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My model plate last weekend was moaning about how chitty her finances are, with her maxing out her credit card.

So if a plate is driving just over an hour to your house and another hour journey back home the next day & repeating that every weekend.

Over the month thats a considerable about of money on fuel costs.

If a plate comes over like clockwork, svcks you and fvks you good.

I don't travel an inch for her and never will..

Would you occasionally toss her some cash to cover some of her fuel?

I literally spend shyte on her, other than provide the alcohol and food at my house!
 
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I probably would, but then again I'm probably nicer than the average SoSuave member.
 

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Well I have given girlfriends gas money before but only like $20 or I’d fill up their car (no more than $40). I guess giving her $20 can’t hurt since you are sleeping with her. Now if you weren’t then I wouldn’t give her jack ****. I have an ex I dated back in 2006/2007 that I still keep in touch with. We still sleep with each other every so often but nothing steady, she just trusts me and I was the one guy that was cool to her in a string of jackasses she loves to date. She needed a phone the other day and contacted me asking if I had one she could buy, I just upgraded so I gave her my old phone. I said “you can’t buy it but you can pay me back another way”. She was like “deal! Thank you so much”. Took it to her house, we got it on, hungout and caught up since we hadn’t seen each other in a year and that was that.
 

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I personally don’t mind the occasional good gesture, particularly if it serves to my own benefit. However, I would be hesitant to do such a thing consistently, most especially for a person who maxed out their credit cards.

That is the type of mentality that will have her maxing out your generosity sooner or later.

Right now, she may be conservative with her driving, knowing she doesn’t have a lot of cash to fuel up. Take on the role of elevating this expense and she will eventually start driving all over the place knowing she’s getting a full tank from you.

What might start off with an easy 20 spot once a week can eventually turn into an $80 expense every weekend with rising summer gas prices and turmoil in the Middle East...not to mention the precedence set from the routine.

“Babe, can you be a doll and spot me some grocery money this week too”?

I’ll flip the bill for a nice dinner here and there and share the wealth in certain other ways on occasion, but I don’t do regular expenses/bills.
 
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This is a mistake ive made in the past helping a gf with $
Will not repeat

It create a precedent and they expect it more and more and expect you to pay more and more things.
 

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I agree with Lamath. Once you make this kinda mistake once you don't go back

I offered a woman a drive once and it was all down hill from there

On the other hand, I've had LTR's travel 200 miles and I never once paid

If she's broke tell her to hit you up when her finances are better

Indifference and high status, always
 

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My model plate last weekend was moaning about how chitty her finances are, with her maxing out her credit card.

So if a plate is driving just over an hour to your house and another hour journey back home the next day & repeating that every weekend.

Over the month thats a considerable about of money on fuel costs.

If a plate comes over like clockwork, svcks you and fvks you good.

I don't travel an inch for her and never will..

Would you occasionally toss her some cash to cover some of her fuel?

I literally spend shyte on her, other than provide the alcohol and food at my house!
If you have her ALLWAYS come to you covering her gas is fair game and doesnt make you a chump. Because she saves you time and energy coming to you.
 
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Financial stability (education and career) are one of the main requirements I look for in plates.

I am not looking for a piggy bank and I will not be used as one either. If they are broke due to no education, lack of career or brutally stupid spending choices, I move on quickly.
 
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Financial stability (education and career) are one of the main requirements I look for in plates.

I am not looking for a piggy bank and I will not be used as one either. If they are broke due to no education, lack of career or brutally stupid spending choices, I move on quickly.
Agree. Her Needing your money or her vibrating at a much lower level is not attractive.
 

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If she's driving over 2 hours just to stay at your house and have sex, and you never have to pay for anything, then I wouldn't trip off giving her a little gas money here and there. There's nothing wrong with rewarding women who are doing what they need to do to please you
 

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When she comes to see you, and you are out doing stuff, just tell her to pull into a gas station and you'll fill up her car. Don't offer her an option, just do it and tell her it is the least you can do. If she says you don't have to do that, tell her she can make it up to you. Then wink at her.
 

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My model plate last weekend was moaning about how chitty her finances are, with her maxing out her credit card.

So if a plate is driving just over an hour to your house and another hour journey back home the next day & repeating that every weekend.

Over the month thats a considerable about of money on fuel costs.

If a plate comes over like clockwork, svcks you and fvks you good.

I don't travel an inch for her and never will..

Would you occasionally toss her some cash to cover some of her fuel?

I literally spend shyte on her, other than provide the alcohol and food at my house!

If she is a plate, then no, don't give her any money.

It's mental for women. She will perceive you giving her money when she is not even your gf as a low status move. When it comes to money, that should be reserved for LTR status.

Have a list of things you would do for plates and have a list of things you are willing to do for your actual GF, and do not confuse the two. Draw a line somewhere.

And like what @Glassguy said, once she starts needing your money, drop her.
 
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My question to people who complain about money or finances is "What are you doing right now to improve that?" Most of them have no viable answer.
 

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My question to people who complain about money or finances is "What are you doing right now to improve that?" Most of them have no viable answer.
Complaining... Lol.

If you keep needing extra $, get a part time job.
 

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There is a major detail here that everyone is missing that must be taken into consideration. And its not only gas money, buying dinner, etc.

If she expects you to do it, it will not feel right. If she allows you to do it on your own because you want to, all is good.

I have no problem helping a friend out here and there and have done so many times. I've had friends come up to me and discretely ask me to borrow anywhere from $200 to $5000. They did it in a very humble way and I know they didnt have another immediate option if they were coming to me as a friend. I never told them no and they all paid me back.

Now if they would have came to me EXPECTING it from me just because I had it, I would have told them no.

Thats the difference.

I am a good friend to those I care about. Not a fvcking bank.
 

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Complaining... Lol.

If you keep needing extra $, get a part time job.
F that. Work on getting a better job than you already have that makes you more money for the same time you are already working.

New skills, more education, etc...I would never trade more time for a minimum wage job.
 

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F that. Work on getting a better job than you already have that makes you more money for the same time you are already working.

New skills, more education, etc...I would never trade more time for a minimum wage job.
I was assuming they were well up in their career making decent money but need a extra $10-$20k to make things better.
 
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