"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Online dating experts, I need your help
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
One of the girls - very cute face but a little chubby and already a single mom at 26 threw herself at me but I obviously wasn't interested. She did tell me "I'm extremely hot" so that was very encouraging. None of the other girls were dateable - chubby, trashy, too old, smokers, etc...
Was actually a fun night and good encouragement. I noticed the girls liked me the most when I'm a little reserved and let the ladies come to me/treat myself like the prize/let them work for my attention
Less desperate I come across, the more successful I seem to be
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No. He and tenacity must have been laughing at how gullible some of you were
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Who, da dyn? Yep. I've talked to a bunch of SS guys over pm, never sexually tho, no nudes, nothing like that, nothing sexual.
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Lol, oh boy. He wanted me to prove I wasn't a guy so I texted him my picture. I'm surprised you didn't get a copy, I hear he passed it around. Bigneil gave me a 7. But it wasn't a nude. He also passed out my phone number and two ss'ers called me. IMO pretty beta behavior all the way around.
Anyways this is really old news. Hopefully I've satisfied your curiosity as I would like to drop it.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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I have nothing to hide and id prefer the truth be told
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Oh good Lord. He tried. It was not pretty, lol
devilkingx2
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In the same way that his strange charisma has us all here gathered in one spot, forming a phalanx to siege his mind castle and assassinate his doubt
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#Word on that
He did send both of us his picture.....I wouldn't put him any higher than a 6 - but he isn't the type of guy looks wise that I think is attractive
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
You should pm me tonight.....lol
Like I told you before, as a good looking guy myself I can tell from your post your not as good looking as you think, hot guys don't have the issues that you have, but you blame it on you being picky? No, your just delusional
Why no pvssy? No girls in your life? If your so hot why such a long dry spell?
You see, if you actually were willing to learn and not just babble 24/7 then maybe you could of already realised your not as good looking as you think and then you could work on other aspects to be appealing to women.
Instead, you disregard everything we say and swear up and down your this hot guy with extremely high standards lol man please
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Thanks but I've learned my lesson lol
Sh!t happens sazc, Don't let a couple of experiences in the past dictate the future, sometimes you will miss out on things.......
I hear ya though.
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Meh, I also had tenacity scream at me in pm telling me I was a racist, and other unsavory things. Lots of shiz went down in pm that I did not deserve. It's disabled now. It's easier that way
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
True.
But it's damn entertaining.
@sazc you seriously need to take dave and give him a good spanking for being recalcitrant, he might change a bit, you'll never know.
devilkingx2
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There are no girls on the internet, this is widely known fact.
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The internet is a sausage fest. Just look at this place.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.