"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Online dating experts, I need your help
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
One of the girls - very cute face but a little chubby and already a single mom at 26 threw herself at me but I obviously wasn't interested. She did tell me "I'm extremely hot" so that was very encouraging. None of the other girls were dateable - chubby, trashy, too old, smokers, etc...
Was actually a fun night and good encouragement. I noticed the girls liked me the most when I'm a little reserved and let the ladies come to me/treat myself like the prize/let them work for my attention
Less desperate I come across, the more successful I seem to be
sazc
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No. He and tenacity must have been laughing at how gullible some of you were
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Who, da dyn? Yep. I've talked to a bunch of SS guys over pm, never sexually tho, no nudes, nothing like that, nothing sexual.
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Lol, oh boy. He wanted me to prove I wasn't a guy so I texted him my picture. I'm surprised you didn't get a copy, I hear he passed it around. Bigneil gave me a 7. But it wasn't a nude. He also passed out my phone number and two ss'ers called me. IMO pretty beta behavior all the way around.
Anyways this is really old news. Hopefully I've satisfied your curiosity as I would like to drop it.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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I have nothing to hide and id prefer the truth be told
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Oh good Lord. He tried. It was not pretty, lol
devilkingx2
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In the same way that his strange charisma has us all here gathered in one spot, forming a phalanx to siege his mind castle and assassinate his doubt
sazc
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#Word on that
He did send both of us his picture.....I wouldn't put him any higher than a 6 - but he isn't the type of guy looks wise that I think is attractive
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
You should pm me tonight.....lol
Like I told you before, as a good looking guy myself I can tell from your post your not as good looking as you think, hot guys don't have the issues that you have, but you blame it on you being picky? No, your just delusional
Why no pvssy? No girls in your life? If your so hot why such a long dry spell?
You see, if you actually were willing to learn and not just babble 24/7 then maybe you could of already realised your not as good looking as you think and then you could work on other aspects to be appealing to women.
Instead, you disregard everything we say and swear up and down your this hot guy with extremely high standards lol man please
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Thanks but I've learned my lesson lol
Sh!t happens sazc, Don't let a couple of experiences in the past dictate the future, sometimes you will miss out on things.......
I hear ya though.
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Meh, I also had tenacity scream at me in pm telling me I was a racist, and other unsavory things. Lots of shiz went down in pm that I did not deserve. It's disabled now. It's easier that way
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
True.
But it's damn entertaining.
@sazc you seriously need to take dave and give him a good spanking for being recalcitrant, he might change a bit, you'll never know.
devilkingx2
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There are no girls on the internet, this is widely known fact.
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The internet is a sausage fest. Just look at this place.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.