"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

OMG tinder whats wrong with you

mrgoodstuff

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 27, 2015
Messages
17,586
Reaction score
11,948
Location
DFW, TX
I listened to Tomi Lahren, and she is saying that all these hard working, very good jobs, self respecting women are having issues and problems finding a man. They felt the men they wanted were choosing "thots" instead. This is a viewpoint from women themselves that I discovered in the past, but I forgot about it handing around here.

If all of all these hard working, really good jobs women, have problems finding men and they want a man for themselves, and men really are choosing thots instead that would be a gold mine.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

Solomon

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 28, 2008
Messages
6,536
Reaction score
4,075
Location
Inside her mind
I listened to Tomi Lahren, and she is saying that all these hard working, very good jobs, self respecting women are having issues and problems finding a man. They felt the men they wanted were choosing "thots" instead. This is a viewpoint from women themselves that I discovered in the past, but I forgot about it handing around here.

If all of all these hard working, really good jobs women, have problems finding men and they want a man for themselves, and men really are choosing thots instead that would be a gold mine.
Let's not forget Tomi is only talking about the top 5%-10% the rest of men in her world don't exist or are not worthy
 

mrgoodstuff

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 27, 2015
Messages
17,586
Reaction score
11,948
Location
DFW, TX
Let's not forget Tomi is only talking about the top 5%-10% the rest of men in her world don't exist or are not worthy
She's saying those 5%-10% are choosing "thotiana" over her and her girls. She also said the guy didn't need a great job if he was well put together and ambitious. He could even make less than them. Sounds like they can't even find a man to treat them right.
 

AttackFormation

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 2, 2014
Messages
4,062
Reaction score
3,617
Age
33
Location
Sweden
She's saying those 5%-10% are choosing "thotiana" over her and her girls. She also said the guy didn't need a great job if he was well put together and ambitious. He could even make less than them. Sounds like they can't even find a man to treat them right.
It's well researched how women bully female competitors with name calling and passive aggression, that's all it is with them calling other women "thots" because men prefer them. For the second part of the post you have to go by the usual of what they would really do, not what they say, and keep in mind just because they don't expect him to be a millionaire doesn't mean their internal bad attitude and external sexual competition for Chad goes away.
 

Solomon

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 28, 2008
Messages
6,536
Reaction score
4,075
Location
Inside her mind
She's saying those 5%-10% are choosing "thotiana" over her and her girls. She also said the guy didn't need a great job if he was well put together and ambitious. He could even make less than them. Sounds like they can't even find a man to treat them right.
can they not find a man to treat them right or does her attitude turn of a high value man?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

mrgoodstuff

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 27, 2015
Messages
17,586
Reaction score
11,948
Location
DFW, TX
can they not find a man to treat them right or does her attitude turn of a high value man?
They probably are presenting themselves as a prize, when thotiana will chase those man and will fvck them good. These women are likely presenting themselves as a "problem" to those men.
 

MatureDJ

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 30, 2006
Messages
12,678
Reaction score
5,125
I'm located in Eastern Europe, where the average quality is much better, and I only Like women that have a profile that shows that they have a good figure, and are not ridiculously attractive model types (i.e., since I know that there is nothing to be gained there). I think that because I am so picky, I tend to get a decent selection. Oh, this means it is still rare to get a mutual Like, but I don't spend much time on it (how could I, with all the great content I post here? :p)
 

Hamurabimbi

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 4, 2018
Messages
4,117
Reaction score
3,613
Location
California
Fresh account
asked results of 18-22
Fatties, trans, men, more fatties, black screen, more fatties, hot babe, fatties, nerds

Now I have idea why young guys complain about OLD.. this is or that or cold approaching
I was on Tinder last year and it was awesome. But it’s been 10 months or so since I left (got a GF). I do plan to go back, if I ever need to. But maybe it’s gone bad?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

Jack12345

Banned
Joined
Jan 20, 2020
Messages
752
Reaction score
428
I was on Tinder last year and it was awesome. But it’s been 10 months or so since I left (got a GF). I do plan to go back, if I ever need to. But maybe it’s gone bad?
There are many fat girls but I dont think this is a 10 months change
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

Read more...

Jack12345

Banned
Joined
Jan 20, 2020
Messages
752
Reaction score
428
I switched them around. But Judas Priest songs like ‘Ram it Down’, ‘Jawbreaker’ or similar aggressive, sexual songs worked.
I have pixies gouge away right now pretty aggressive but I guess a little bit hipsterious
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

Top