"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I listened to Tomi Lahren, and she is saying that all these hard working, very good jobs, self respecting women are having issues and problems finding a man. They felt the men they wanted were choosing "thots" instead. This is a viewpoint from women themselves that I discovered in the past, but I forgot about it handing around here.

If all of all these hard working, really good jobs women, have problems finding men and they want a man for themselves, and men really are choosing thots instead that would be a gold mine.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I listened to Tomi Lahren, and she is saying that all these hard working, very good jobs, self respecting women are having issues and problems finding a man. They felt the men they wanted were choosing "thots" instead. This is a viewpoint from women themselves that I discovered in the past, but I forgot about it handing around here.

If all of all these hard working, really good jobs women, have problems finding men and they want a man for themselves, and men really are choosing thots instead that would be a gold mine.
Let's not forget Tomi is only talking about the top 5%-10% the rest of men in her world don't exist or are not worthy
 

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Let's not forget Tomi is only talking about the top 5%-10% the rest of men in her world don't exist or are not worthy
She's saying those 5%-10% are choosing "thotiana" over her and her girls. She also said the guy didn't need a great job if he was well put together and ambitious. He could even make less than them. Sounds like they can't even find a man to treat them right.
 

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She's saying those 5%-10% are choosing "thotiana" over her and her girls. She also said the guy didn't need a great job if he was well put together and ambitious. He could even make less than them. Sounds like they can't even find a man to treat them right.
It's well researched how women bully female competitors with name calling and passive aggression, that's all it is with them calling other women "thots" because men prefer them. For the second part of the post you have to go by the usual of what they would really do, not what they say, and keep in mind just because they don't expect him to be a millionaire doesn't mean their internal bad attitude and external sexual competition for Chad goes away.
 

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She's saying those 5%-10% are choosing "thotiana" over her and her girls. She also said the guy didn't need a great job if he was well put together and ambitious. He could even make less than them. Sounds like they can't even find a man to treat them right.
can they not find a man to treat them right or does her attitude turn of a high value man?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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can they not find a man to treat them right or does her attitude turn of a high value man?
They probably are presenting themselves as a prize, when thotiana will chase those man and will fvck them good. These women are likely presenting themselves as a "problem" to those men.
 

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I'm located in Eastern Europe, where the average quality is much better, and I only Like women that have a profile that shows that they have a good figure, and are not ridiculously attractive model types (i.e., since I know that there is nothing to be gained there). I think that because I am so picky, I tend to get a decent selection. Oh, this means it is still rare to get a mutual Like, but I don't spend much time on it (how could I, with all the great content I post here? :p)
 

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Fatties, trans, men, more fatties, black screen, more fatties, hot babe, fatties, nerds

Now I have idea why young guys complain about OLD.. this is or that or cold approaching
I was on Tinder last year and it was awesome. But it’s been 10 months or so since I left (got a GF). I do plan to go back, if I ever need to. But maybe it’s gone bad?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I was on Tinder last year and it was awesome. But it’s been 10 months or so since I left (got a GF). I do plan to go back, if I ever need to. But maybe it’s gone bad?
There are many fat girls but I dont think this is a 10 months change
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I switched them around. But Judas Priest songs like ‘Ram it Down’, ‘Jawbreaker’ or similar aggressive, sexual songs worked.
I have pixies gouge away right now pretty aggressive but I guess a little bit hipsterious
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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