"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Older women angry at Drake for dating younger girl.

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And the world keeps spinning. It's nice to see all the info on female behavior still being correct to this day and age.




 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Women “groom” men too. Go on a few dates with a guy, get him hooked, then give him the “I like you but I’m not ready for a relationship right now, you’re so much fun though how about we be friends for now?” And then proceed to use the guys feelings against him and manipulate him into doing favors and buying you stuff? Because you know……”friends” and all. THATS grooming.
 

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We've been saying it forever, it's the femcels with personality disorders that push this narrative because they have no hope of keeping a man thus they need the numbers because without them, the illusion begins to fall a part.
They can keep a man just fine. They just can’t keep the men they’re going after. You know….”deserve”?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Women “groom” men too. Go on a few dates with a guy, get him hooked, then give him the “I like you but I’m not ready for a relationship right now, you’re so much fun though how about we be friends for now?” And then proceed to use the guys feelings against him and manipulate him into doing favors and buying you stuff? Because you know……”friends” and all. THATS grooming.
Sh1t, this works for attention too, not just dates and favors. Any kind of feigned interest or feigned sexual availability only to be followed afterwards by intense, surprise scrutiny or escalation blocking is grooming as well.

Even at lower levels...heavy makeup, padded bras, myspace angles...all grooming
 

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I don't know. There's a difference between banging an 18 year old and dating one. That's some weird ****.
 

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This is a common thing. Older women get angry when they see men dating younger women. I've experienced this phenomenon myself.
I'm not sure if they are concerned that the girl is being taken advantage of, or if they are just jealous that the younger girls are taking the available older men. I suspect the latter.
 

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This is a common thing. Older women get angry when they see men dating younger women. I've experienced this phenomenon myself.
I'm not sure if they are concerned that the girl is being taken advantage of, or if they are just jealous that the younger girls are taking the available older men. I suspect the latter.
Bitterness to see a guy have options they once enjoyed when they were in their prime.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I remember when I was online dating I was told I was “too young” by a woman who was 38. I was 34 at the time.lol Yet somehow I’m not “too old” for women in their 20’s. Of course I’m going to go after who gives me the time of day, why wouldn’t I???
 

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It’s women not coming to terms with their own decline in sexual value. Not accepting that they are aging and are not as sought after anymore.

I’ve talked to women with these opinions, and asked them if they ever hooked up with an older guy when they were young and of course they all have. They just don’t like being on the other side of it.
 

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More coming from the angry at drake camp:

“Predatory men that go after underage girls are turned on by their innocence and by taking that innocence away. They LIKE knowing they are the ones teaching these girls about sex, before anyone else gets to them. Once that's done, a good portion of them discard the girl and return to their normal lives until a new innocent appears for them to debauch.”
So much to unpack. The biggest lie is that these girls are being taught sex by him instead of all the music, movies, social media, and most of all feminism exposing sex to girls at a young age. Literally their fault, not Drake or any guy who likes young women.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Older women are angry and bitter at everything lol
So why care?
It's moreso they get into positions of power and make decisions to further hurt men.
 

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Let me preface this with the fact I have daughters the same age as the woman in question. When I was Drake's age (34) I couldn't conceive of a reason to be attracted to a woman under the age of 21. Maybe I have just enjoyed the independent woman who knows what she wants from life experience and is an equal with shared experiences and perspectives. Hell once I entered College, High School seniors were off limits. "Training " a girlfriend? Ain't nobody got time for that!

18 year old girls, no matter how big a modelling contract they have are NOT worldly, or sophisticated. What's she gonna do for a big night out with him Take him to her Prom? PFFFFTTTTT....I'd like to be with a woman who has voted in a couple elections and can rent a car on her own. Wide eyed innocence is not attractive to me. Instead I feel protective of it. But I'm a father. i don't need my daughter dating a 35 year old adolescent..

If one of my buddies was dating a High school age girl, I'd give him so much crap about it. It's like shooting a spike buck that doesn't know to fear the guy with the gun in the fall....
 

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Let me preface this with the fact I have daughters the same age as the woman in question. When I was Drake's age (34) I couldn't conceive of a reason to be attracted to a woman under the age of 21. Maybe I have just enjoyed the independent woman who knows what she wants from life experience and is an equal with shared experiences and perspectives. Hell once I entered College, High School seniors were off limits. "Training " a girlfriend? Ain't nobody got time for that!

18 year old girls, no matter how big a modelling contract they have are NOT worldly, or sophisticated. What's she gonna do for a big night out with him Take him to her Prom? PFFFFTTTTT....I'd like to be with a woman who has voted in a couple elections and can rent a car on her own. Wide eyed innocence is not attractive to me. Instead I feel protective of it. But I'm a father. i don't need my daughter dating a 35 year old adolescent..

If one of my buddies was dating a High school age girl, I'd give him so much crap about it. It's like shooting a spike buck that doesn't know to fear the guy with the gun in the fall....
This is honestly why it's very hard to have this discussion with even men cause there's men like yourself who is emotionally invested, whether it's cause he has a daughter of his own, or because he is predisposed to "career women that can drive and vote" [which btw is a product of the feminist society we were raised in]. These career women are no more mature than a woman who isn't a career woman. A woman doesn't become "mature" simply cause she became more man-like, and we need to attack this trait more on SoSuave.

There is very good logical reasons why older men get with younger women, and as a father, I can argue you have more reasons to want your daughter to go out with an older man than a younger one. Both Rollo and Jordan Peterson both touched on this and have indirectly admitted that older women have nothing to offer versus younger women to most men. That's why Leo Dicaprio continues to only surround himself with young women and why we continue to get articles of older men going after girls. Meanwhile, the swath of the female generation of marriedless, childless used up women are getting older and wondering why none of the older rich guys are going after them.

The answer is obvious. Feminism made this happen. They made their bed, now they have to lie in it.
 

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Or Men like you can't stand up to women who can think for themselves.

I've had dogs who would OBEY me to a fault. I value independent problem solving. I don't need a yes-girl.

When you can be with a woman you respect, life is so much easier.

I want the Queen, Not the Handmaid.

 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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