HaleyBaron
Master Don Juan
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And the world keeps spinning. It's nice to see all the info on female behavior still being correct to this day and age.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
They can keep a man just fine. They just can’t keep the men they’re going after. You know….”deserve”?We've been saying it forever, it's the femcels with personality disorders that push this narrative because they have no hope of keeping a man thus they need the numbers because without them, the illusion begins to fall a part.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Celebrities today lack that Sean Connery and other greats charm to them.I have to say, he looks beta as fvck in those pics.
Sh1t, this works for attention too, not just dates and favors. Any kind of feigned interest or feigned sexual availability only to be followed afterwards by intense, surprise scrutiny or escalation blocking is grooming as well.Women “groom” men too. Go on a few dates with a guy, get him hooked, then give him the “I like you but I’m not ready for a relationship right now, you’re so much fun though how about we be friends for now?” And then proceed to use the guys feelings against him and manipulate him into doing favors and buying you stuff? Because you know……”friends” and all. THATS grooming.
Bitterness to see a guy have options they once enjoyed when they were in their prime.This is a common thing. Older women get angry when they see men dating younger women. I've experienced this phenomenon myself.
I'm not sure if they are concerned that the girl is being taken advantage of, or if they are just jealous that the younger girls are taking the available older men. I suspect the latter.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
He doesn’t need to be “alpha.” He is pre-selected via reputation, wealth, and body of work.I have to say, he looks beta as fvck in those pics.
So much to unpack. The biggest lie is that these girls are being taught sex by him instead of all the music, movies, social media, and most of all feminism exposing sex to girls at a young age. Literally their fault, not Drake or any guy who likes young women.“Predatory men that go after underage girls are turned on by their innocence and by taking that innocence away. They LIKE knowing they are the ones teaching these girls about sex, before anyone else gets to them. Once that's done, a good portion of them discard the girl and return to their normal lives until a new innocent appears for them to debauch.”
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
It's moreso they get into positions of power and make decisions to further hurt men.Older women are angry and bitter at everything lol
So why care?
Alpha is a state of mind. Prince Harry was also “pre-selected” and look at where it got him.He doesn’t need to be “alpha.” He is pre-selected via reputation, wealth, and body of work.
This is honestly why it's very hard to have this discussion with even men cause there's men like yourself who is emotionally invested, whether it's cause he has a daughter of his own, or because he is predisposed to "career women that can drive and vote" [which btw is a product of the feminist society we were raised in]. These career women are no more mature than a woman who isn't a career woman. A woman doesn't become "mature" simply cause she became more man-like, and we need to attack this trait more on SoSuave.Let me preface this with the fact I have daughters the same age as the woman in question. When I was Drake's age (34) I couldn't conceive of a reason to be attracted to a woman under the age of 21. Maybe I have just enjoyed the independent woman who knows what she wants from life experience and is an equal with shared experiences and perspectives. Hell once I entered College, High School seniors were off limits. "Training " a girlfriend? Ain't nobody got time for that!
18 year old girls, no matter how big a modelling contract they have are NOT worldly, or sophisticated. What's she gonna do for a big night out with him Take him to her Prom? PFFFFTTTTT....I'd like to be with a woman who has voted in a couple elections and can rent a car on her own. Wide eyed innocence is not attractive to me. Instead I feel protective of it. But I'm a father. i don't need my daughter dating a 35 year old adolescent..
If one of my buddies was dating a High school age girl, I'd give him so much crap about it. It's like shooting a spike buck that doesn't know to fear the guy with the gun in the fall....
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.