HaleyBaron
Master Don Juan
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And the world keeps spinning. It's nice to see all the info on female behavior still being correct to this day and age.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
They can keep a man just fine. They just can’t keep the men they’re going after. You know….”deserve”?We've been saying it forever, it's the femcels with personality disorders that push this narrative because they have no hope of keeping a man thus they need the numbers because without them, the illusion begins to fall a part.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Celebrities today lack that Sean Connery and other greats charm to them.I have to say, he looks beta as fvck in those pics.
Sh1t, this works for attention too, not just dates and favors. Any kind of feigned interest or feigned sexual availability only to be followed afterwards by intense, surprise scrutiny or escalation blocking is grooming as well.Women “groom” men too. Go on a few dates with a guy, get him hooked, then give him the “I like you but I’m not ready for a relationship right now, you’re so much fun though how about we be friends for now?” And then proceed to use the guys feelings against him and manipulate him into doing favors and buying you stuff? Because you know……”friends” and all. THATS grooming.
Bitterness to see a guy have options they once enjoyed when they were in their prime.This is a common thing. Older women get angry when they see men dating younger women. I've experienced this phenomenon myself.
I'm not sure if they are concerned that the girl is being taken advantage of, or if they are just jealous that the younger girls are taking the available older men. I suspect the latter.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
He doesn’t need to be “alpha.” He is pre-selected via reputation, wealth, and body of work.I have to say, he looks beta as fvck in those pics.
So much to unpack. The biggest lie is that these girls are being taught sex by him instead of all the music, movies, social media, and most of all feminism exposing sex to girls at a young age. Literally their fault, not Drake or any guy who likes young women.“Predatory men that go after underage girls are turned on by their innocence and by taking that innocence away. They LIKE knowing they are the ones teaching these girls about sex, before anyone else gets to them. Once that's done, a good portion of them discard the girl and return to their normal lives until a new innocent appears for them to debauch.”
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
It's moreso they get into positions of power and make decisions to further hurt men.Older women are angry and bitter at everything lol
So why care?
Alpha is a state of mind. Prince Harry was also “pre-selected” and look at where it got him.He doesn’t need to be “alpha.” He is pre-selected via reputation, wealth, and body of work.
This is honestly why it's very hard to have this discussion with even men cause there's men like yourself who is emotionally invested, whether it's cause he has a daughter of his own, or because he is predisposed to "career women that can drive and vote" [which btw is a product of the feminist society we were raised in]. These career women are no more mature than a woman who isn't a career woman. A woman doesn't become "mature" simply cause she became more man-like, and we need to attack this trait more on SoSuave.Let me preface this with the fact I have daughters the same age as the woman in question. When I was Drake's age (34) I couldn't conceive of a reason to be attracted to a woman under the age of 21. Maybe I have just enjoyed the independent woman who knows what she wants from life experience and is an equal with shared experiences and perspectives. Hell once I entered College, High School seniors were off limits. "Training " a girlfriend? Ain't nobody got time for that!
18 year old girls, no matter how big a modelling contract they have are NOT worldly, or sophisticated. What's she gonna do for a big night out with him Take him to her Prom? PFFFFTTTTT....I'd like to be with a woman who has voted in a couple elections and can rent a car on her own. Wide eyed innocence is not attractive to me. Instead I feel protective of it. But I'm a father. i don't need my daughter dating a 35 year old adolescent..
If one of my buddies was dating a High school age girl, I'd give him so much crap about it. It's like shooting a spike buck that doesn't know to fear the guy with the gun in the fall....
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.