HaleyBaron
Master Don Juan
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And the world keeps spinning. It's nice to see all the info on female behavior still being correct to this day and age.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
They can keep a man just fine. They just can’t keep the men they’re going after. You know….”deserve”?We've been saying it forever, it's the femcels with personality disorders that push this narrative because they have no hope of keeping a man thus they need the numbers because without them, the illusion begins to fall a part.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Celebrities today lack that Sean Connery and other greats charm to them.I have to say, he looks beta as fvck in those pics.
Sh1t, this works for attention too, not just dates and favors. Any kind of feigned interest or feigned sexual availability only to be followed afterwards by intense, surprise scrutiny or escalation blocking is grooming as well.Women “groom” men too. Go on a few dates with a guy, get him hooked, then give him the “I like you but I’m not ready for a relationship right now, you’re so much fun though how about we be friends for now?” And then proceed to use the guys feelings against him and manipulate him into doing favors and buying you stuff? Because you know……”friends” and all. THATS grooming.
Bitterness to see a guy have options they once enjoyed when they were in their prime.This is a common thing. Older women get angry when they see men dating younger women. I've experienced this phenomenon myself.
I'm not sure if they are concerned that the girl is being taken advantage of, or if they are just jealous that the younger girls are taking the available older men. I suspect the latter.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
He doesn’t need to be “alpha.” He is pre-selected via reputation, wealth, and body of work.I have to say, he looks beta as fvck in those pics.
So much to unpack. The biggest lie is that these girls are being taught sex by him instead of all the music, movies, social media, and most of all feminism exposing sex to girls at a young age. Literally their fault, not Drake or any guy who likes young women.“Predatory men that go after underage girls are turned on by their innocence and by taking that innocence away. They LIKE knowing they are the ones teaching these girls about sex, before anyone else gets to them. Once that's done, a good portion of them discard the girl and return to their normal lives until a new innocent appears for them to debauch.”
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
It's moreso they get into positions of power and make decisions to further hurt men.Older women are angry and bitter at everything lol
So why care?
Alpha is a state of mind. Prince Harry was also “pre-selected” and look at where it got him.He doesn’t need to be “alpha.” He is pre-selected via reputation, wealth, and body of work.
This is honestly why it's very hard to have this discussion with even men cause there's men like yourself who is emotionally invested, whether it's cause he has a daughter of his own, or because he is predisposed to "career women that can drive and vote" [which btw is a product of the feminist society we were raised in]. These career women are no more mature than a woman who isn't a career woman. A woman doesn't become "mature" simply cause she became more man-like, and we need to attack this trait more on SoSuave.Let me preface this with the fact I have daughters the same age as the woman in question. When I was Drake's age (34) I couldn't conceive of a reason to be attracted to a woman under the age of 21. Maybe I have just enjoyed the independent woman who knows what she wants from life experience and is an equal with shared experiences and perspectives. Hell once I entered College, High School seniors were off limits. "Training " a girlfriend? Ain't nobody got time for that!
18 year old girls, no matter how big a modelling contract they have are NOT worldly, or sophisticated. What's she gonna do for a big night out with him Take him to her Prom? PFFFFTTTTT....I'd like to be with a woman who has voted in a couple elections and can rent a car on her own. Wide eyed innocence is not attractive to me. Instead I feel protective of it. But I'm a father. i don't need my daughter dating a 35 year old adolescent..
If one of my buddies was dating a High school age girl, I'd give him so much crap about it. It's like shooting a spike buck that doesn't know to fear the guy with the gun in the fall....
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.