Evangenlion
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just reading all these posts, made me realise how confused you people are.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Originally posted by Enjin 7
so no taking bj's from a girl with a coldsore right?
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
If you still believe that sex is the key to a woman's heart you are lost homey. Get into a chick's brain and you get into a chicks soul. Sex isn't as important to women as it is to men. Men who dont' get that are men who are excellent with women.Originally posted by Sloopy
Some of you guys are just ridiculous. The real truth is that SH1T HAPPENS.
Seriously...some of us like to go down on girls (it is one of my favourite things to do) and others of us don't.
On top of that, it's mighty immature of you guys to blame this girl for something she can't control.
Oh, and by the way, if you don't learn to go down on a girl and do a good job, you are missing out on one happy lady who will do a LOT more for you in bed and out. So quit being so hypocritical - unless you never want another bl0wjob.
~Sloopy
Women don't have the same need for sex as men, but if it isn't GREAT sex then we aren't likely to want it much...especially with a lousy sex partner. You sound like a lousy sex partner.Originally posted by Royal Elite
If you still believe that sex is the key to a woman's heart you are lost homey. Get into a chick's brain and you get into a chicks soul. Sex isn't as important to women as it is to men. Men who dont' get that are men who are excellent with women.
Control the soul you control the body.
Originally posted by Sloopy
Some of you guys are just ridiculous.
Oh, and by the way, if you don't learn to go down on a girl and do a good job, you are missing out on one happy lady who will do a LOT more for you in bed and out. So quit being so hypocritical - unless you never want another bl0wjob.
~Sloopy
yeah, the doctor said that the "itching" i'm experiencing is due to the fact that i trim down there, and the tingling was probably triggered psychologically. i actually don't feel it anymore, it was just my mind messing with me. i'm actually a lot less worried today. i'm pretty sure i overreacted...though my feeling about going down again is still staunchly against it.Originally posted by Gangster Of Love
actually, that's a pretty good tip...and i usually don't. i think i'll buy one of those touch lamps.Originally posted by Sasha
Allways f_ck with light on!!![]()
Sasha
to be honest, i'm actually now leaning that she didn't know. because i hadn't gone all the way down, and had maybe licked her pvssy once...and went back up to kiss her as i slipped in my fingers. and when i kissed her, i could tell she must have tasted something...hehe, i know you think that's stupid, but i do kiss a girl after kissing her other lips. anyway, i think she knew when i got up to go to the bathroom, that something was wrong...so it's not like she all of a sudden started crying, because she already seemed scared when i left. i mean that in that i already had a strong frame on her that she didn't feel comfortable joking with me and bought me things to keep me around, etc...that's the type of dominant frame i like to keep with most chicks anyway.Originally posted by Royal Elite
first off h2o that is a nasty bit ch you messed with and you better not feel no remorse for kicking her out.
yeah, i agree with this...but doesn't mean Royal is lousy, or that he gets less sex...this is how he gets sex...once you get in her head, you'll get sex anytime ...and to be honest, this girl hasn't called me back yet, but i wouldn't be surprised if she didOriginally posted by Royal Elite
Get into a chick's brain and you get into a chicks soul. Sex isn't as important to women as it is to men. Men who dont' get that are men who are excellent with women.
Control the soul you control the body.
Originally posted by h2o
I was just about to fvck this girl tonight, and as I'm starting to lick her *****, something don't feel right. I keep trying for a little bit. One thing that worries me right off the bat is that she's all wet right off the bat. She doesn't say sh*t, and is like "oh" and so I keep at it...but I can't get myself turned on or her cumming.
GOD ****ING DAMMIT
She's on her period!!! I went to the bathroom because I couldn't get turned on...and we were about to just sleep...I went to the bathroom, and I notice blood on my shirt. I'm like "WTF!!!!!!!!!!!!!????"
I kicked her out immediately. wtF!!!!
i'M Going to get tested tomorrow morning...this is terrible motherfvcking sh*t
she knew it, and she just went with it, that stupid *****!!!!!!!!!!
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
no...damn, i'm not that stupid :crackup:Originally posted by Immaculate
Did the girl have a tampon in her?
You're an idiot...that is all.Originally posted by SAYNO
As a man, I assure you...she did this on purpose. That is one nasty ass **** too man.
I wouldn't f*ck with this tramp anymore period. like another poster has already said, most of these women's ***** is like toxic waste, lick at your own peril.
I was about to hit this broad once and found out she was on her period, i through her nasty filthy ass out!
You gotta to remember that these women live in a culture that refused to hold them responsible for thier actions. So if a womens has aids she could give a rats ass if you catch it. And no she's not going to put a sing on her head with all her diseases written on it either.
It's a moot point to say this but here goes:
Never trust these women!
Sayno'
If she didn't have a tampon in, then no, she didn't know. Put yourself in her position for a second. Would you go out to a club without a tampon if you knew you were bleeding? Of course not...it would show on your clothes and would be terribly embarassing. Would you go back to someone's place and start having sex with them if you knew you were bleeding? Hell no!Originally posted by h2o
no...damn, i'm not that stupid :crackup:
but, i guess you're saying she wouldn't have known about her period?
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Bravo Wlyd you're best post yet.Originally posted by Wyldfire
If she didn't have a tampon in, then no, she didn't know. Put yourself in her position for a second. Would you go out to a club without a tampon if you knew you were bleeding? Of course not...it would show on your clothes and would be terribly embarassing. Would you go back to someone's place and start having sex with them if you knew you were bleeding? Hell no!
The girl didn't know. Anyone who says she did know isn't thinking logically or rationally. No girl goes out an about trying to hook up with someone while bleeding without wearing anything to keep her from getting covered in blood. Think about it...
Good to know that you know every single girls' motives. While I agree she probably didn't know, and I believe I was the first to suggest that possibility , but you're always defending female behavior here and it gets irritating..Originally posted by Wyldfire
If she didn't have a tampon in, then no, she didn't know. Put yourself in her position for a second. Would you go out to a club without a tampon if you knew you were bleeding? Of course not...it would show on your clothes and would be terribly embarassing. Would you go back to someone's place and start having sex with them if you knew you were bleeding? Hell no!
The girl didn't know. Anyone who says she did know isn't thinking logically or rationally. No girl goes out an about trying to hook up with someone while bleeding without wearing anything to keep her from getting covered in blood. Think about it...
Dude...this is common sense. Would you knowingly let a girl go down on you if you knew you had something leaking out of your arse? I think not. This isn't about defending anyone...it's freaking COMMON SENSE.Originally posted by ketostix
Good to know that you know every single girls' motives. While I agree she probably didn't know, and I believe I was the first to suggest that possibility , but you're always defending female behavior here and it gets irritating..
lol...I think he is so full of sh*t that it probably does leak out of his arse just as much as it clearly leaks out of his mouth. :crackup:Originally posted by Avon
I think SAYNO would.
So...yeah, I'm not inhuman, and yeah, I've been kind of thinking about this lately. I don't know, but maybe I overreacted and let go of a girl that was really into me. Tonight, I ran out of meals on my meal plan, and it would have been nice to have someone buy me dinner again. So, what I'm trying to say is, if you were in my shoes, would you apologize?Originally posted by Wyldfire
Dude...this is common sense. Would you knowingly let a girl go down on you if you knew you had something leaking out of your arse? I think not. This isn't about defending anyone...it's freaking COMMON SENSE.
Girls care too much about their clothes to ruin them with blood from not wearing a tampon out in public. NO girl does that...NONE.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.