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fvck game, i'm not gonna touch a girl for months after this
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
i don't have any sores. i do have a very slight cavity, but it's not really a cavity.Originally posted by zerocelcius
Do you have any open wounds in your mouth, or cavities?
If not don't worrie to hard.
If she tries to get a hold of you again explain you were upset and calmly ask if she has any STD's.
It is a crime not to tell sombody about your STD before exposing them to it. So I doub't she wouldn't tell you, but than again she didn't tell you about being on her period.
It also could be that she was on the very edge of her period, and the flow of lubercations had some blood in it that, but wasn't actually full on bleeding.
There are many factors here, and stressing will only drive you insane. try to relax or sleep, and stop worring so hard.
They have saliva tests for some STD's and HIV if you don't want to do the blood tests.
Hopfully that makes you feel some what better.
But first one question if you know she gets around why did you go down on her?
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Chlamydia is a bacteria but it isn't an HIV.Originally posted by Inquire
but isnt like chamidia or wutever a bacteria?
yeah, i went to ask the resident admin if he had listerine, and this is exactly what he said to me pretty much, he was like "ah...red wings" fvck red wingsOriginally posted by Derek Flint
Congratulations on getting your first set of "Red Wings"
hey, thanks, that's a tiny bit comforting...i'm still scared sh!tless, and i really won't be completely comfortable until i know for sure...which is in about 3 hrs when the health center opens upOriginally posted by zerocelcius
that is pretty funny actually. "red wings ha"...
Listen I could be wrong here but the way it looks is this.
She didn't know about the period, and it sounds like I said, it was mixed with her natural lube. So the chances of blood to blood contact is slim. Since you don't have an open wound and only a slight cavity. The chances go down again.
She said no to having an STD, and replying to that in a soft voice is understandable cause of the harshness of the situation. That is very personal but prudent question. Although you had the right to ask I am sure it took her back, which would explain the quit voice.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.