Reyaj
Master Don Juan
What I'm actually going to do is a create a good myspace method based on everyone's advice here.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Official MySpace Thread - How to pick up girls
- Thread starter Reyaj
- Start date
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Another myspace tip thread:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=133121
And some plate theory:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=90482
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=132452
Plate management is the curse of success.
I was out with this girl:
She said something like 'good becaue I'm going to see other guys' and I expressed genuine relief and said, "good, because I'm going to see other girls." I think it was just a sh!ttest,
the other night, and she said, "do you remember when I said I was going to see other guys? Well, I'm not. I like you."
This is after I did not call her for a week after our last date. In fact, I'm not calling her right now. I think I'll go out and get drunk with my roommate. I've had enough myspace-induced sex for a week.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=133121
And some plate theory:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=90482
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=132452
Plate management is the curse of success.
I was out with this girl:
She said something like 'good becaue I'm going to see other guys' and I expressed genuine relief and said, "good, because I'm going to see other girls." I think it was just a sh!ttest,
the other night, and she said, "do you remember when I said I was going to see other guys? Well, I'm not. I like you."
This is after I did not call her for a week after our last date. In fact, I'm not calling her right now. I think I'll go out and get drunk with my roommate. I've had enough myspace-induced sex for a week.
Everyone take a look at this thread, might be useful.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=133121
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=133121
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
I beat you to it by about an hour, cnfy; that is a good thread.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Leaving Comments - What Not to Do
Here's something to avoid - leaving comments on a girl's page that refer to a specific time spent together. A plate of mine keeps ignoring this guy she hooked up with a couple of weeks ago (which is fair, we both see other people). We make fun of this guy and laugh about him a lot, because he's in love with her now and calls ten times a day (and he resembles a South Park character). Since she started ignoring him, he has been all over her myspace page, leaving comments that try to make it look like the two of them are dating. This is loser behavior - if he had the girl, then he wouldn't need to leave the possessive comments. Furthermore, if he were dating multiple girls, then he would not do this either, because it would just make drama. Sex is like money in that the people who have a lot of it play it down, and the people who don't have much try to look like they do. Guys who need to brag on myspace about whatever time they spent with some girl are not the guys getting the girls. So far, once I meet a girl from myspace and we have sex, I stay away from her page and communicate with her over myspace as little as possible.
Here's something to avoid - leaving comments on a girl's page that refer to a specific time spent together. A plate of mine keeps ignoring this guy she hooked up with a couple of weeks ago (which is fair, we both see other people). We make fun of this guy and laugh about him a lot, because he's in love with her now and calls ten times a day (and he resembles a South Park character). Since she started ignoring him, he has been all over her myspace page, leaving comments that try to make it look like the two of them are dating. This is loser behavior - if he had the girl, then he wouldn't need to leave the possessive comments. Furthermore, if he were dating multiple girls, then he would not do this either, because it would just make drama. Sex is like money in that the people who have a lot of it play it down, and the people who don't have much try to look like they do. Guys who need to brag on myspace about whatever time they spent with some girl are not the guys getting the girls. So far, once I meet a girl from myspace and we have sex, I stay away from her page and communicate with her over myspace as little as possible.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Snow Plowman
Master Don Juan
I hate trying to get girls offline because I see it as an excuse to stay home and try and sarge, instead of being in the actual trenches...
But common sense shouldn't all profiles have...
- Pictures of you having fun with your friends (Night Out Pictures)
- Pictures of something unique happening or your hobbies
- Pictures of you and hot women doing different poses (kisses, licking, unique poses...such as her head near your crotch and smiling)
- For myspace having many slides on your page filled with pictures
Look at famous party chicks myspaces, they have a sh!tload of stuff on there page that don't even need to be there. Pics of them partying and dressed all nice and slutty. (mmm you like don't you)
Also your basis of your profile should be developed based on your reality. Like when the people click your name there drawn into you reality (Your page) and is just fascinated by seeing all different types of pictures, your music. The pictures should show certain emotions so they can get an idea of what your about.
I stay far away from all those stuff by its obivious the things I mentioned would help Fascination and curiousity will always lead her to want to get to know you more. But heck what do I know, I don't talk to women online.
But common sense shouldn't all profiles have...
- Pictures of you having fun with your friends (Night Out Pictures)
- Pictures of something unique happening or your hobbies
- Pictures of you and hot women doing different poses (kisses, licking, unique poses...such as her head near your crotch and smiling)
- For myspace having many slides on your page filled with pictures
Look at famous party chicks myspaces, they have a sh!tload of stuff on there page that don't even need to be there. Pics of them partying and dressed all nice and slutty. (mmm you like don't you)
Also your basis of your profile should be developed based on your reality. Like when the people click your name there drawn into you reality (Your page) and is just fascinated by seeing all different types of pictures, your music. The pictures should show certain emotions so they can get an idea of what your about.
I stay far away from all those stuff by its obivious the things I mentioned would help Fascination and curiousity will always lead her to want to get to know you more. But heck what do I know, I don't talk to women online.
Reyaj
Master Don Juan
True....Snow Plowman said:
NickSCFC2000
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Great advice...Snow Plowman said:
if you want to pick up sluts.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
I have begun to notice that the myspace relationship status is completely unreliable. I have been with two myspace plates lately. Both of them have 'in a relationship,' and neither is talking about me.
Randallpink83
Master Don Juan
This is true... Relationship status doesn't mean anything.... well, it shouldn't stop you anyhow. 
....I'm doing a new thing these days... I had always kept my friends list as strictly my friends list, and I would only send messages and open girls up, and I pulled some lays as I said before... But nowadays, screw all that... I just ADD the hottest girls I can find in my area. All the hot girls within a 20 mile radius I am adding... about half are accepting my request.
And now that they are my friends I'm starting to comment on some of their bulletins, leave comments, We will see where this takes me.
....I'm doing a new thing these days... I had always kept my friends list as strictly my friends list, and I would only send messages and open girls up, and I pulled some lays as I said before... But nowadays, screw all that... I just ADD the hottest girls I can find in my area. All the hot girls within a 20 mile radius I am adding... about half are accepting my request.
And now that they are my friends I'm starting to comment on some of their bulletins, leave comments, We will see where this takes me.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Reyaj
Master Don Juan
bump
Reyaj
Master Don Juan
so anyway I ended up meeting and screwing a girl from out of state... very random though.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
worst...LR...ever
But congrats on getting laid!
But congrats on getting laid!
DonGorgon
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The main tip is to make sure that they think you are attractive.. Its all about that head shot so if you dont look good .. forget it..
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Reyaj
Master Don Juan
I think the current girl I was seeing saw this girl on my myspace and it may have messed me up!
NickSCFC2000
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I wouldn't worry about the short-term STD, seeing as she's only just broke up with her bf she'll probably use that as an excuse everytime you try to get into her knickers anyway
Reyaj
Master Don Juan
have you closed any girls on there yet or are you just chatting?jdawgmcb said:
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.