Official MySpace Thread - How to pick up girls

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I personally hate myspace, but you can pick up chicks on it pretty easily if you take good pictures of yourself. Girls will add you as a friend (NOT porno bots). When they do that, add them and send them a message that says "hey do I know you from somewhere" and they'll usually respond with a message like "no i thought you looked hot." Then you can pretty much work them from there.

Make sure you have at least 120 friends or something. It's kinda tacky adding someone who has 20 friends.
 

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The Deacon said:
I personally hate myspace, but you can pick up chicks on it pretty easily if you take good pictures of yourself. Girls will add you as a friend (NOT porno bots). When they do that, add them and send them a message that says "hey do I know you from somewhere" and they'll usually respond with a message like "no i thought you looked hot." Then you can pretty much work them from there.

Make sure you have at least 120 friends or something. It's kinda tacky adding someone who has 20 friends.

Can you post an example of a good page.....
 

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jdawgmcb said:
As far as the myspace game goes... I will ONLY attempt to build rapport if the HB contacts ME first.
ummm...just how often does an HB ever contact a guy first
 

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ummm...just how often does an HB ever contact a guy first
about as close to never as you can get.

in the real world, an HB of any kind doesn't need to do this. in the online world, she definitely doesn't. even the HB2's get hit up on a regular basis, which shows you how sad it is.

myspace used to be okay, before the losers came en masse, about two years ago. right now it is just a place where women can pass the time to fill a void in their otherwise worthless pathetic lives.

for the most part, you are cheap entertainment to them. nothing more.

myspace and the like has really fvcked dating up. unfortunately, you cannot unring a bell.

IMO, the best way to approach myspace is to NOT use it to pick up women per se. the best way is to exploit the blogging aspect of it. if you can write excellent material (of any kind), and manage to get those blog posts into the top spots, they will cometh. make them laugh, make them cry, evoking emotion of any kind.

unfortunately, myspaces blog platform is just about the worst there is.

the fact with myspace and the rest is this:

if you're on there to pick up chicks, you have automatically lowered your value because you are in the company of what every loser in the world is doing. if you get a bunch of chicks to comment on you etc, to increase your social value (social proof), you are merely trying to raise the lower value that you have given yourself in the first place.

i really don't bother with myspace anymore. i'm not saying it can't be done, because it can. i'm saying that it's a waste of time.

my 2 cents
 
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I am finding that chicks dig martial arts and fighting. Myspace is great for showing off your hobbies. I have been into mma and cage fighting lately, thinking about getting a fight by the summer. Women love it.

There's a 19 y/o amateur porn star that I talk to occasionally; I talked to her about motorcycles before she got into porn, but she has never given me more than cursory replies. I am not entertaining any thought of being with her, but she is fun to know. I told her she should be a cage fighter, and here is the response she sent me:

I am talking to a friend about it. He said he could trian me but Ill hit you up later on and let you know what going on and that ****ing bad ass that ur getting into that ****. THATS HOTTT!!!


So a lot of hot women like martial arts. If you are into that as a hobby, make sure your myspace page reflects it.
 

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ulrick's post is near perfection.

Most can't blog - as evidenced by the empty content of yet another display for a self-absorbed culture. I always give a disgusted chuckle when some hb9 blogs about her latest teacup shizapoo dog breed - yuk. DILLIGAF...to use their quaint terminology. The only writers are our new generation of DJ PUAs formed... by extensive posting in PUA forums.

Writing skill is as difficult as math skills - most have none. To add yet another difficult to acquire skill to catching poon adds more complication; that means more time wasted.

I bait my profile with deliberate traps to lure hbs into inquiry, but, they are so intensely self-absorbed and pathologically narcissistic they almost never do. They don't have to. Women prefer poossies.

I've sarged established porn chicks and you'll never find a more empty husk of characters. They make strippers look like Ayn Rand.

It's not the "horrors of The Industry" that corrupt, degenerate and pervert them so: It's the constant validation, praise and social rewards they receive for merely doing what comes natural - then blowing bubbles. They are the most (here comes a vastly under-employed word for a current situation) selfish people imaginable, and so, impossible to sarge with mutual equality and respect because they are accustomed to being worshiped. It's these repellent one-sided relationships that are the greatest waste of time that I refuse to enter.
 

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TooColdUlrick said:
about as close to never as you can get.

in the real world, an HB of any kind doesn't need to do this. in the online world, she definitely doesn't. even the HB2's get hit up on a regular basis, which shows you how sad it is.

myspace used to be okay, before the losers came en masse, about two years ago. right now it is just a place where women can pass the time to fill a void in their otherwise worthless pathetic lives.

for the most part, you are cheap entertainment to them. nothing more.

myspace and the like has really fvcked dating up. unfortunately, you cannot unring a bell.

IMO, the best way to approach myspace is to NOT use it to pick up women per se. the best way is to exploit the blogging aspect of it. if you can write excellent material (of any kind), and manage to get those blog posts into the top spots, they will cometh. make them laugh, make them cry, evoking emotion of any kind.

unfortunately, myspaces blog platform is just about the worst there is.

the fact with myspace and the rest is this:

if you're on there to pick up chicks, you have automatically lowered your value because you are in the company of what every loser in the world is doing. if you get a bunch of chicks to comment on you etc, to increase your social value (social proof), you are merely trying to raise the lower value that you have given yourself in the first place.

i really don't bother with myspace anymore. i'm not saying it can't be done, because it can. i'm saying that it's a waste of time.

my 2 cents
I agree with your idea of using it for dating being afc.... however social proof is what it is.... In a way I think its helped me score with girls in the real world because of the social proof... as long as you don't make it obvious that its what you are doing.

If you are popular and get comments it doesn't make you look AFC at all but the contrary...
 

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this is a pretty stupid and negative thread - whats the point of discussing how BAD myspace is??? this thread should then be called the "how to be frustrated and how to not pick up girls on myspace"

myspace is easy as hell to meet girls off of, and most of them end up being quality - if you dont have the skills to do it, then you dont know how to be a man that girls fall for
 

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Kid, if you're at a keyboard myspacing while surrounded by hundreds of legal [for you] 16 year old high school girls, the proverb of "not seeing the forest for the trees" was created expressly for you.

AFC Savior said:
this is a pretty stupid and negative thread - whats the point of discussing how BAD myspace is??? this thread should then be called the "how to be frustrated and how to not pick up girls on myspace"

myspace is easy as hell to meet girls off of***, and most of them end up being quality - if you dont have the skills to do it, then you dont know how to be a man that girls fall for
***um, speaking of negativity...if it's so easy, it should be even easier for you to write about your methods instead of beotching about the content of this thread.

How about you give us lessons on how "easy as hell to meet girls" it is. If you are The Man that girls fall for, we're all ears.
 

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Bible_Belt said:
ER!C_L!VE made a great post on this thread:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?&p=1323372#post1323372

Here is also another myspace thread, this one got closed:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=138095
BB I'd be curious to see what these girls look like. I'm not saying it can't happen like he describres, but it would require a lot of time in front of the computer and the targets would have to be big time sluts.

Most of the hot girls I've encoutnered are Attention *****s.... well at least where I live... maybe the midwest is different :)
 

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Jayer said:
BB I'd be curious to see what these girls look like. I'm not saying it can't happen like he describres, but it would require a lot of time in front of the computer and the targets would have to be big time sluts.

Most of the hot girls I've encoutnered are Attention *****s.... well at least where I live... maybe the midwest is different :)
I do spend most of my day in front of the computer as my job(s) require it. So, yes it does take alot of time and alot of burning through girls to get nudes. That's how I figured out how to get the girls to send me nudes and masturbate on webcam for me in the first place. Trial and error.

Online is very similar to real life. There are things girls say and do online that very few dudes experience. Most guys online are AFC and don't 'get it'. Then, then there are guys who act like the girl's ex-boyfriend treated her online. Her ex probably said, "baby, take a pic of your tits and email them to me". She was like, "OK!! I love you baby!" :cheer: *Be and act like that guy!* I've had many girls say to me, "I never do this!" or "I've done this once, but I didn't show my poosey!"

Anyway, yes, so the girls usually have nudes left over from sending them to their ex-boyfriends. Get the girl aroused and feeling like she felt when she was with her ex and you've got yourself some nudies in the mail or she'll show you her hidden photobucket or where ever the fvck she keeps them.

As for girls being big time sluts - did you see the nude photos of Vanessa Hudgens? She (supposedly) sent them to her ex-boyfriend. Very sexy, cute looking girl. She has nudes. I bet if she was chatting online with the right guy, she would have sent them to him too!

Many really hot girls with good bodies online have nude pix. Be that guy that acts masculine and makes her panties moist, then ask for them.

Just always remember - girls will say and do things online that they would never say in real life. The anonymity aspect of the internet gives girls the freedom to act as sexual as they want without their friends finding out. (this is rad for us older dudes as most younger girls want to test drive a guy twice their age, but that's a whole other topic)

Know that sometimes a girl just wants to send her nudes to a random dude who got her hot online. It's like a weird azz fantasy thing for them... sometimes a girl wants to talk dirty and masturbate with a random stranger who flipped her switches - right then and their. Always keep this in mind when on the hunt ;)

I've posted pix of my conquests before. The most recent was in August. I rarely get into yahoo chat anymore. However, this night I was skiing in the alps when I got online. It was about 4AM when I met an 18yo girl in Yahoo chat. We started chatting, I webcamed with her, started talking about anal and how she'd never done it. So we webcamed until 7AM about how she wanted me to take her anal virginity. We met up a few days later and I closed the deal... She had a rock hard, super athletic body with a butterface. It was a free meal with minimal effort - I rarely pass those up.

Tried, tested and proven by me.
 

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Thanks, Eric. Nice post.

Jayer, he has just been doing this a lot longer. You get better with time, like anything else. Ten years ago, I would not have believed it possible to have two attractive nympho GFs who are exclusive to me and call me their boyfriend, while they each still know about and accept me fvcking the other girl. btw, to make this post on-topic, they are old friends of mine, but we hooked up again through myspace. I used to be hung up on the one-girl-at-a-time mindset. But things can usually be however you want them to be, if you want it badly enough.
 

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I suppose. Good post then Eric. I guess i'm more concerned with gettings girls out and laying them than naked pictures... but still getting some cam and pic action is good for the whole hand and imagination... :)
 

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I don't know

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Use the same one... dont make it harder for yourself buddy.... its really just about having fun and teasing the girls...

I have a very good Approach for a girl that looks banging and her Profile is Private...

HB10 had a default with her ass sticking out....

I message her SUBJECT: You know what....

BODY: I think of you when I see your default.... "An ASS" LMFAOO

She replies... OK (EXACTLY WHAT I WANTED)

ME: OK..?? ... You know Im sorry.. I thought you were a girl with a sense of humor... I guess I thought wrong... It was a pleasure meeting you :) Bye.

HER: I am... I amm funny, Im sorry If I came off *****y to you :-(.. whats going on, wasup?

AND THATS WHERE I START GAMING :)

Point is... If girls are being *****y to you... they will make it look (even if its not,, like its your fault)... HOWEVER... If you make it look like it was THEIR fault.. and showed yourself as a COOL (im not going to say NICE) Guy.... then her emotions will change toward you... and she will start opening up... plus will be careful about what she says...

Please dont over..use this if your going to do it..

This is what she said:

"...WHAT DO U NEED THEM HOES OUT THEIR GO TO PIDOMNT STREET AND GO FIND ONE U FUKKIN .., ASS HOLE"

This was a response to me telling her she had no humor. I apologized and she didn't respond...So maybe I did something wrong???
 

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So I haven't down any of the div overlays or anything but have sent out some messages to girls and get resposnes. I had a girl ask for my # but she is an hb 8 and I said I'd only give it to her if she was really going to call. She never responded after that... and I just hit her back being c&f saying its a good thing I didn't give it out lol... She just responded....
 

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I just got out-played on myspace. Now my fb is doing the guy who outdid me on myspace. :( She was mad at me for having a gf anyway.

The inherent problem with trying to plate-spin with girls you meet on myspace is that it is too obvious what you are doing, and the women start talking to each other, and tattling on you.

I am coming to see that the answer to this is to do what the guy did who just took a girl away from me: make a new myspace page for each woman you are gaming off myspace. After you meet one girl and start fvcking her, before you spin another plate, go back to square one and start over with a new profile. Do your best to make each profile look different. Don't use your real name in the myspace account; don't have any of the same friends or pictures. Try to put up pictures of yourself that make it hard to identify you precisely. When you want to stop seeing a girl, then simply stop logging in to the myspace page that you used to meet her. You can go back to that account when you want to fvck that particular girl again. She will have been obsessively stalking that profile to see when you log back on, and the emotionally roller-coaster will make her horny as she tries to validate herself by snagging the guy who disappeared on her.
 
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