Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Official MySpace Thread - How to pick up girls

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Another myspace tip thread:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=133121

And some plate theory:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=90482
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=132452

Plate management is the curse of success.

I was out with this girl:
She said something like 'good becaue I'm going to see other guys' and I expressed genuine relief and said, "good, because I'm going to see other girls." I think it was just a sh!ttest,

the other night, and she said, "do you remember when I said I was going to see other guys? Well, I'm not. I like you."

This is after I did not call her for a week after our last date. In fact, I'm not calling her right now. I think I'll go out and get drunk with my roommate. I've had enough myspace-induced sex for a week.
 

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Leaving Comments - What Not to Do

Here's something to avoid - leaving comments on a girl's page that refer to a specific time spent together. A plate of mine keeps ignoring this guy she hooked up with a couple of weeks ago (which is fair, we both see other people). We make fun of this guy and laugh about him a lot, because he's in love with her now and calls ten times a day (and he resembles a South Park character). Since she started ignoring him, he has been all over her myspace page, leaving comments that try to make it look like the two of them are dating. This is loser behavior - if he had the girl, then he wouldn't need to leave the possessive comments. Furthermore, if he were dating multiple girls, then he would not do this either, because it would just make drama. Sex is like money in that the people who have a lot of it play it down, and the people who don't have much try to look like they do. Guys who need to brag on myspace about whatever time they spent with some girl are not the guys getting the girls. So far, once I meet a girl from myspace and we have sex, I stay away from her page and communicate with her over myspace as little as possible.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I hate trying to get girls offline because I see it as an excuse to stay home and try and sarge, instead of being in the actual trenches...

But common sense shouldn't all profiles have...
- Pictures of you having fun with your friends (Night Out Pictures)
- Pictures of something unique happening or your hobbies
- Pictures of you and hot women doing different poses (kisses, licking, unique poses...such as her head near your crotch and smiling)
- For myspace having many slides on your page filled with pictures

Look at famous party chicks myspaces, they have a sh!tload of stuff on there page that don't even need to be there. Pics of them partying and dressed all nice and slutty. (mmm you like don't you)


Also your basis of your profile should be developed based on your reality. Like when the people click your name there drawn into you reality (Your page) and is just fascinated by seeing all different types of pictures, your music. The pictures should show certain emotions so they can get an idea of what your about.

I stay far away from all those stuff by its obivious the things I mentioned would help Fascination and curiousity will always lead her to want to get to know you more. But heck what do I know, I don't talk to women online.
 

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Snow Plowman said:
I hate trying to get girls offline because I see it as an excuse to stay home and try and sarge, instead of being in the actual trenches...

But common sense shouldn't all profiles have...
- Pictures of you having fun with your friends (Night Out Pictures)
- Pictures of something unique happening or your hobbies
- Pictures of you and hot women doing different poses (kisses, licking, unique poses...such as her head near your crotch and smiling)
- For myspace having many slides on your page filled with pictures

Look at famous party chicks myspaces, they have a sh!tload of stuff on there page that don't even need to be there. Pics of them partying and dressed all nice and slutty. (mmm you like don't you)


Also your basis of your profile should be developed based on your reality. Like when the people click your name there drawn into you reality (Your page) and is just fascinated by seeing all different types of pictures, your music. The pictures should show certain emotions so they can get an idea of what your about.

I stay far away from all those stuff by its obivious the things I mentioned would help Fascination and curiousity will always lead her to want to get to know you more. But heck what do I know, I don't talk to women online.
True....
 

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Snow Plowman said:
- Pictures of you and hot women doing different poses (kisses, licking, unique poses...such as her head near your crotch and smiling)
Great advice...



if you want to pick up sluts.
 

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I have begun to notice that the myspace relationship status is completely unreliable. I have been with two myspace plates lately. Both of them have 'in a relationship,' and neither is talking about me.
 

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This is true... Relationship status doesn't mean anything.... well, it shouldn't stop you anyhow. :cool:



....I'm doing a new thing these days... I had always kept my friends list as strictly my friends list, and I would only send messages and open girls up, and I pulled some lays as I said before... But nowadays, screw all that... I just ADD the hottest girls I can find in my area. All the hot girls within a 20 mile radius I am adding... about half are accepting my request.

And now that they are my friends I'm starting to comment on some of their bulletins, leave comments, We will see where this takes me.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Obliteraga said:
How do you answer random chicks that message you, especially short comments?

"you're cute"

"you're hot"

"you're sexy"

How the F do you respond to crap like this?
"I know"

That's it
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I wouldn't worry about the short-term STD, seeing as she's only just broke up with her bf she'll probably use that as an excuse everytime you try to get into her knickers anyway ;)
 

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As far as the myspace game goes... I will ONLY attempt to build rapport if the HB contacts ME first. Which has happened because I have closely showed social proof (by posting pictures with other HBs)
 

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jdawgmcb said:
As far as the myspace game goes... I will ONLY attempt to build rapport if the HB contacts ME first. Which has happened because I have closely showed social proof (by posting pictures with other HBs)
have you closed any girls on there yet or are you just chatting?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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