Reyaj
Master Don Juan
What I'm actually going to do is a create a good myspace method based on everyone's advice here.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
True....Snow Plowman said:I hate trying to get girls offline because I see it as an excuse to stay home and try and sarge, instead of being in the actual trenches...
But common sense shouldn't all profiles have...
- Pictures of you having fun with your friends (Night Out Pictures)
- Pictures of something unique happening or your hobbies
- Pictures of you and hot women doing different poses (kisses, licking, unique poses...such as her head near your crotch and smiling)
- For myspace having many slides on your page filled with pictures
Look at famous party chicks myspaces, they have a sh!tload of stuff on there page that don't even need to be there. Pics of them partying and dressed all nice and slutty. (mmm you like don't you)
Also your basis of your profile should be developed based on your reality. Like when the people click your name there drawn into you reality (Your page) and is just fascinated by seeing all different types of pictures, your music. The pictures should show certain emotions so they can get an idea of what your about.
I stay far away from all those stuff by its obivious the things I mentioned would help Fascination and curiousity will always lead her to want to get to know you more. But heck what do I know, I don't talk to women online.
Great advice...Snow Plowman said:- Pictures of you and hot women doing different poses (kisses, licking, unique poses...such as her head near your crotch and smiling)
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
"I know"Obliteraga said:How do you answer random chicks that message you, especially short comments?
"you're cute"
"you're hot"
"you're sexy"
How the F do you respond to crap like this?
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
have you closed any girls on there yet or are you just chatting?jdawgmcb said:As far as the myspace game goes... I will ONLY attempt to build rapport if the HB contacts ME first. Which has happened because I have closely showed social proof (by posting pictures with other HBs)
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.