Reyaj
Master Don Juan
btw what is LMR and ASD?
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Jayer said:Since Myspace has become a normal social tool in everyday life I'd like to think it's a good way to meet women.
I've seen some various Myspace threads but wanted to make this an official thread where all can post and collect advice for using this tool to get girls.
So does anyone routinely use this to get girls? If so please post your process and some tips which work well.
Me myself have been sending random girls messages but have not had much luck.
I am going to assume that Social Proof and a Good Picture are key to this...
Thoughts............?
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Hey bro at least you give the DIV overlay a shot. It works for me because the page I have is almost like a my personal company page where I design custom layouts for people. So I'm lucky enough to get a lot of the emo and designer chicks. It works well for the quick phone number exchange. I still have 2 other default profiles with comments and friends list. I have over 1,000 comments on my personal default page, but I never use that to spam chicks. I try to go for the AW's but you know how that is.Jayer said:You know I have to be honest here. I tried the div overlay and I think I have more success when girls see my commetns and friends as social proof.
Sort of a catch 22..... I think having a seperate page just for pimping might be the way to go for full force. And then having your own page and sending out messages every now and again for LTR type girls...
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Well said BB.Bible_Belt said:What do you want? It's too easy to write very much about practice. How hard can this be? Myspace is just an ice-breaker and recruiting tool to get phone numbers.
Some guys say it is too much work and not worth the effort, and I think maybe if you only want the most beautiful women, HB9+, then that is probably true. However, any strategy is going to be low-percentage with the hottest women; they're just harder to get. But if you just want to get laid, and a hb7-8 with the right attitude will make you happy, then myspace offers free access to thousands of women. It is worth it for the numbers alone.
Another thing I've noticed is that personal loneliness varies in direct proportion to time spent on myspace. The more time a girl spends online, the more desperate for companionship she is. Those female friends who always seem to be 'online now' are the paths of least resistance.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.