"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Official MySpace Thread - How to pick up girls

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Another myspace tip thread:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=133121

And some plate theory:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=90482
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=132452

Plate management is the curse of success.

I was out with this girl:
She said something like 'good becaue I'm going to see other guys' and I expressed genuine relief and said, "good, because I'm going to see other girls." I think it was just a sh!ttest,

the other night, and she said, "do you remember when I said I was going to see other guys? Well, I'm not. I like you."

This is after I did not call her for a week after our last date. In fact, I'm not calling her right now. I think I'll go out and get drunk with my roommate. I've had enough myspace-induced sex for a week.
 

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Leaving Comments - What Not to Do

Here's something to avoid - leaving comments on a girl's page that refer to a specific time spent together. A plate of mine keeps ignoring this guy she hooked up with a couple of weeks ago (which is fair, we both see other people). We make fun of this guy and laugh about him a lot, because he's in love with her now and calls ten times a day (and he resembles a South Park character). Since she started ignoring him, he has been all over her myspace page, leaving comments that try to make it look like the two of them are dating. This is loser behavior - if he had the girl, then he wouldn't need to leave the possessive comments. Furthermore, if he were dating multiple girls, then he would not do this either, because it would just make drama. Sex is like money in that the people who have a lot of it play it down, and the people who don't have much try to look like they do. Guys who need to brag on myspace about whatever time they spent with some girl are not the guys getting the girls. So far, once I meet a girl from myspace and we have sex, I stay away from her page and communicate with her over myspace as little as possible.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I hate trying to get girls offline because I see it as an excuse to stay home and try and sarge, instead of being in the actual trenches...

But common sense shouldn't all profiles have...
- Pictures of you having fun with your friends (Night Out Pictures)
- Pictures of something unique happening or your hobbies
- Pictures of you and hot women doing different poses (kisses, licking, unique poses...such as her head near your crotch and smiling)
- For myspace having many slides on your page filled with pictures

Look at famous party chicks myspaces, they have a sh!tload of stuff on there page that don't even need to be there. Pics of them partying and dressed all nice and slutty. (mmm you like don't you)


Also your basis of your profile should be developed based on your reality. Like when the people click your name there drawn into you reality (Your page) and is just fascinated by seeing all different types of pictures, your music. The pictures should show certain emotions so they can get an idea of what your about.

I stay far away from all those stuff by its obivious the things I mentioned would help Fascination and curiousity will always lead her to want to get to know you more. But heck what do I know, I don't talk to women online.
 

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Snow Plowman said:
I hate trying to get girls offline because I see it as an excuse to stay home and try and sarge, instead of being in the actual trenches...

But common sense shouldn't all profiles have...
- Pictures of you having fun with your friends (Night Out Pictures)
- Pictures of something unique happening or your hobbies
- Pictures of you and hot women doing different poses (kisses, licking, unique poses...such as her head near your crotch and smiling)
- For myspace having many slides on your page filled with pictures

Look at famous party chicks myspaces, they have a sh!tload of stuff on there page that don't even need to be there. Pics of them partying and dressed all nice and slutty. (mmm you like don't you)


Also your basis of your profile should be developed based on your reality. Like when the people click your name there drawn into you reality (Your page) and is just fascinated by seeing all different types of pictures, your music. The pictures should show certain emotions so they can get an idea of what your about.

I stay far away from all those stuff by its obivious the things I mentioned would help Fascination and curiousity will always lead her to want to get to know you more. But heck what do I know, I don't talk to women online.
True....
 

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Snow Plowman said:
- Pictures of you and hot women doing different poses (kisses, licking, unique poses...such as her head near your crotch and smiling)
Great advice...



if you want to pick up sluts.
 

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I have begun to notice that the myspace relationship status is completely unreliable. I have been with two myspace plates lately. Both of them have 'in a relationship,' and neither is talking about me.
 

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This is true... Relationship status doesn't mean anything.... well, it shouldn't stop you anyhow. :cool:



....I'm doing a new thing these days... I had always kept my friends list as strictly my friends list, and I would only send messages and open girls up, and I pulled some lays as I said before... But nowadays, screw all that... I just ADD the hottest girls I can find in my area. All the hot girls within a 20 mile radius I am adding... about half are accepting my request.

And now that they are my friends I'm starting to comment on some of their bulletins, leave comments, We will see where this takes me.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Obliteraga said:
How do you answer random chicks that message you, especially short comments?

"you're cute"

"you're hot"

"you're sexy"

How the F do you respond to crap like this?
"I know"

That's it
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I wouldn't worry about the short-term STD, seeing as she's only just broke up with her bf she'll probably use that as an excuse everytime you try to get into her knickers anyway ;)
 

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As far as the myspace game goes... I will ONLY attempt to build rapport if the HB contacts ME first. Which has happened because I have closely showed social proof (by posting pictures with other HBs)
 

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jdawgmcb said:
As far as the myspace game goes... I will ONLY attempt to build rapport if the HB contacts ME first. Which has happened because I have closely showed social proof (by posting pictures with other HBs)
have you closed any girls on there yet or are you just chatting?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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