Reyaj
Master Don Juan
btw what is LMR and ASD?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Official MySpace Thread - How to pick up girls
- Thread starter Reyaj
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
last minute resistance & anti-slvt defense
You go top down or else it is like you are roughing up her hair, like petting a cat the wrong way. Ask her if it has always been straight/curly, whatever it is. I like the hair thing. To us it is kino, to women it is romantic and I think hints that you might be good in bed. Too many guys only want to grab a girl's r-rated parts and ignore the rest of her. Touching the rest of her body shows that you are different.
You go top down or else it is like you are roughing up her hair, like petting a cat the wrong way. Ask her if it has always been straight/curly, whatever it is. I like the hair thing. To us it is kino, to women it is romantic and I think hints that you might be good in bed. Too many guys only want to grab a girl's r-rated parts and ignore the rest of her. Touching the rest of her body shows that you are different.
Jayer said:
The key is a good profile... ask a girl to help you out... Anyways once you have a cool profile... Theres three steps... first Get there aim sn as soon as possible... Second Get there phone number as soon as possible... and third get them to meet you in person as soon as possible. good luck
Maxtro
Master Don Juan
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
no comments, no friends, no pics? Yours is not simple, it barely exists.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Maxtro
Master Don Juan
Hey I got one pic. Honestly I barely even use the thing and it's only purpose would be to get girls.
Do I even need comments and friends? Or should I use something to hide the fact that they are missing?
Do I even need comments and friends? Or should I use something to hide the fact that they are missing?
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
There might be what I think are called 'div overlays' that hide friends and comments. Guys often do that to avoid drama if they are dating multiple myspace girls. The consensus wisdom with friends and comments is to have a lot of hot female friends who leave you comments as well, but I guess the div overlay would be an efficient end run around all of that.
Regardless, though, you need pics of you socializing. That would help a lot.
Regardless, though, you need pics of you socializing. That would help a lot.
Maxtro
Master Don Juan
Cool, my friends and comments are now missing 
I got to find more pics of myself.
Anybody have some advice in what text I can use to fill in the about me and who I want to meet boxes?
I got to find more pics of myself.
Anybody have some advice in what text I can use to fill in the about me and who I want to meet boxes?
Reyaj
Master Don Juan
You know I have to be honest here. I tried the div overlay and I think I have more success when girls see my commetns and friends as social proof.
Sort of a catch 22..... I think having a seperate page just for pimping might be the way to go for full force. And then having your own page and sending out messages every now and again for LTR type girls...
Thats what Ive come up with so far.
BB did that slut ever you call you? You should tap it again.... this time in the anus
Sort of a catch 22..... I think having a seperate page just for pimping might be the way to go for full force. And then having your own page and sending out messages every now and again for LTR type girls...
Thats what Ive come up with so far.
BB did that slut ever you call you? You should tap it again.... this time in the anus
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Hey, I didn't know we could say slut instead of slvt.
I called her the next day and she was pissy. "Is this your obligatory phone call?" But she was only mad at herself for putting out so soon. A female friend of mine said she had used the same line when she herself put out too soon. But that's like post-asd, so I just ignored it. We are supposed to go out tomorrow night. And she had such a good time in bed the first time, it should be a lot easier to get her there the second night, although I usually leave the anal sex until later in the relationship...
I called her the next day and she was pissy. "Is this your obligatory phone call?" But she was only mad at herself for putting out so soon. A female friend of mine said she had used the same line when she herself put out too soon. But that's like post-asd, so I just ignored it. We are supposed to go out tomorrow night. And she had such a good time in bed the first time, it should be a lot easier to get her there the second night, although I usually leave the anal sex until later in the relationship...
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
SomeKindaHate
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Hey bro at least you give the DIV overlay a shot. It works for me because the page I have is almost like a my personal company page where I design custom layouts for people. So I'm lucky enough to get a lot of the emo and designer chicks. It works well for the quick phone number exchange. I still have 2 other default profiles with comments and friends list. I have over 1,000 comments on my personal default page, but I never use that to spam chicks. I try to go for the AW's but you know how that is.Jayer said:
The whole thing is having tons of comments from chicks, usually it's cool if you're not hooking up with none of them and they're consider your friends. But if you are trying to hollar at a bunch of different girls, you will then see drama ensue. If you've fvcked a girl you met on myspace, she will almost 100% look at your comments. I know from first hand experience, I seen girls start fake profiles, threatened other girls, just pure drama. Not fun at all.
Reyaj
Master Don Juan
a catch 22 Still you might be onto something with that company designer page. If you have an excuse like that not to have friends or comments display I can see it getting girls......
Share a story dude...
Still you might be onto something with that company designer page. If you have an excuse like that not to have friends or comments display I can see it getting girls......Share a story dude...
Obliteraga
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How do you answer random chicks that message you, especially short comments?
"you're cute"
"you're hot"
"you're sexy"
How the F do you respond to crap like this?
"you're cute"
"you're hot"
"you're sexy"
How the F do you respond to crap like this?
Reyaj
Master Don Juan
bump....
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
What do you want? It's too easy to write very much about practice. How hard can this be? Myspace is just an ice-breaker and recruiting tool to get phone numbers.
Some guys say it is too much work and not worth the effort, and I think maybe if you only want the most beautiful women, HB9+, then that is probably true. However, any strategy is going to be low-percentage with the hottest women; they're just harder to get. But if you just want to get laid, and a hb7-8 with the right attitude will make you happy, then myspace offers free access to thousands of women. It is worth it for the numbers alone.
Another thing I've noticed is that personal loneliness varies in direct proportion to time spent on myspace. The more time a girl spends online, the more desperate for companionship she is. Those female friends who always seem to be 'online now' are the paths of least resistance.
Some guys say it is too much work and not worth the effort, and I think maybe if you only want the most beautiful women, HB9+, then that is probably true. However, any strategy is going to be low-percentage with the hottest women; they're just harder to get. But if you just want to get laid, and a hb7-8 with the right attitude will make you happy, then myspace offers free access to thousands of women. It is worth it for the numbers alone.
Another thing I've noticed is that personal loneliness varies in direct proportion to time spent on myspace. The more time a girl spends online, the more desperate for companionship she is. Those female friends who always seem to be 'online now' are the paths of least resistance.
Reyaj
Master Don Juan
Well said BB.Bible_Belt said:
BTW, not to to merge threads... but I could really use some advice on my approach journal... I may be getting oneitis and I don't know how she feels about me...
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Jayer, this thread is very unofficial when it comes to myspace, just search me (skip2mylou781 before i got banned), THAT is myspace advice
all u do in this thread is ask too many questions
my advice here is, "you come off online as u do in real life, so if you are smooth in real life, you'll be smooth online, and if you are bad with girls in real life, you'll be bad online" - thats it
all u do in this thread is ask too many questions
my advice here is, "you come off online as u do in real life, so if you are smooth in real life, you'll be smooth online, and if you are bad with girls in real life, you'll be bad online" - thats it
Reyaj
Master Don Juan
Thats not true man.... the same methods don't work on myspace as they do in real life....
A girl I approach in person may not be receptive to a message I send her on myspace....
In person its easier to build rapport...
A girl I approach in person may not be receptive to a message I send her on myspace....
In person its easier to build rapport...
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.