Reyaj
Master Don Juan
btw what is LMR and ASD?
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Jayer said:Since Myspace has become a normal social tool in everyday life I'd like to think it's a good way to meet women.
I've seen some various Myspace threads but wanted to make this an official thread where all can post and collect advice for using this tool to get girls.
So does anyone routinely use this to get girls? If so please post your process and some tips which work well.
Me myself have been sending random girls messages but have not had much luck.
I am going to assume that Social Proof and a Good Picture are key to this...
Thoughts............?
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Hey bro at least you give the DIV overlay a shot. It works for me because the page I have is almost like a my personal company page where I design custom layouts for people. So I'm lucky enough to get a lot of the emo and designer chicks. It works well for the quick phone number exchange. I still have 2 other default profiles with comments and friends list. I have over 1,000 comments on my personal default page, but I never use that to spam chicks. I try to go for the AW's but you know how that is.Jayer said:You know I have to be honest here. I tried the div overlay and I think I have more success when girls see my commetns and friends as social proof.
Sort of a catch 22..... I think having a seperate page just for pimping might be the way to go for full force. And then having your own page and sending out messages every now and again for LTR type girls...
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Well said BB.Bible_Belt said:What do you want? It's too easy to write very much about practice. How hard can this be? Myspace is just an ice-breaker and recruiting tool to get phone numbers.
Some guys say it is too much work and not worth the effort, and I think maybe if you only want the most beautiful women, HB9+, then that is probably true. However, any strategy is going to be low-percentage with the hottest women; they're just harder to get. But if you just want to get laid, and a hb7-8 with the right attitude will make you happy, then myspace offers free access to thousands of women. It is worth it for the numbers alone.
Another thing I've noticed is that personal loneliness varies in direct proportion to time spent on myspace. The more time a girl spends online, the more desperate for companionship she is. Those female friends who always seem to be 'online now' are the paths of least resistance.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.