"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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O...M...G... hottest chick ever?

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Just goes to show that looks don't really matter as much as we think.

For you she's HB10, but for me she is Bride of Chucky
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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She's only a 10 because she is holding a big mug of beer.
 

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She has really pretty eyes, great hair, nice face, and the freckles are alright. Not a good shot of her body though. Definitely doable.
 

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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ChrizZ said:
Yuk! She looks like a malnourished tranny.

I'll give a few 10s out of various ethnicities and body types... Natalie Portman, Raquel Welch, Halle Berry, Winona Ryder, Tia Carrera, Beyonce, Debbie Harry... referring to them in their prime of course.

And it's not subjective, I'm right and anyone who disagrees with my choices is wrong.
 

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Dude, blondes = not my thing. And this one is typically blonde.

5.85!
 

just so suave

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Crazy Asian, i wouldn't even tap that, but if you lose you sh1t over her, fairplay :)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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she has that 7-7.5 wallflower look. Seems like a bad picture really. Not gorgeous but kinda cute. And her eyes look crooked. Lol

Edit: Upon further inspection I noticed the schooner of beer, I restate that to read hb8.5

Definately bonus points.
 

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Wow, I figured the girl is a headturner because she has pretty eyes and fair skin giving her an "an angelic looking" appearance.
 

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lol, it's crazy how everyone here as completely different taste when it comes to b!tches...
 

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That first girl I would consider a poor Lindsay Lohan.

That second girl had a nice bod but her face dropped her a few points
 

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Crazy Asian said:
she looks even lower than a 7 to me in that pic.

i read a post about how the girl you think is too hot for you is actually not, cause every guy has different tastes. i guess its true.
Hey OK what about this pic of Kady:

http://www.americanidol.com/photos/?set=497&seq=0

I only chose this one because it's not airbrushed or anything like her picture on the main page probably is. But still, I don't see how she is only a 7 and the girl with the weird face is a 10. To each his own I guess. Though I'm still curious why you think Kady is a 7.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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ezily said:
Hey OK what about this pic of Kady:

http://www.americanidol.com/photos/?set=497&seq=0

I only chose this one because it's not airbrushed or anything like her picture on the main page probably is. But still, I don't see how she is only a 7 and the girl with the weird face is a 10. To each his own I guess. Though I'm still curious why you think Kady is a 7.
Idk. She doesn't do it for me either. She looks completely average to me. I would rate her a 7, too.
 

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ChrizZ said:
Idk. She doesn't do it for me either. She looks completely average to me. I would rate her a 7, too.
:crackup: that's cool. Who do you think is hot (i.e. a 10)? I mean I'm just having a hard time seeing how she's just average. You must come into contact with some really attractive girls. Sure she's only 18 and that picture doesn't really do her justice but still...
 

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you know, it's actually a good thing that everyone has their own tastes. Because if they didn't then everyone would be chasing the exact same girls. Look, personally I'm not a huge fan of blondes but they just look a little hotter to me. I'm not entirely sure why.

btw I would give Rose Byrne a 7.5.
 

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ezily said:
you know, it's actually a good thing that everyone has their own tastes. Because if they didn't then everyone would be chasing the exact same girls. Look, personally I'm not a huge fan of blondes but they just look a little hotter to me. I'm not entirely sure why.

btw I would give Rose Byrne a 7.5.
here, I posted what I think is a perfect 10 already...

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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