Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Just goes to show that looks don't really matter as much as we think.

For you she's HB10, but for me she is Bride of Chucky
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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She's only a 10 because she is holding a big mug of beer.
 

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She has really pretty eyes, great hair, nice face, and the freckles are alright. Not a good shot of her body though. Definitely doable.
 

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ChrizZ said:
Yuk! She looks like a malnourished tranny.

I'll give a few 10s out of various ethnicities and body types... Natalie Portman, Raquel Welch, Halle Berry, Winona Ryder, Tia Carrera, Beyonce, Debbie Harry... referring to them in their prime of course.

And it's not subjective, I'm right and anyone who disagrees with my choices is wrong.
 

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Dude, blondes = not my thing. And this one is typically blonde.

5.85!
 

just so suave

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Crazy Asian, i wouldn't even tap that, but if you lose you sh1t over her, fairplay :)
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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she has that 7-7.5 wallflower look. Seems like a bad picture really. Not gorgeous but kinda cute. And her eyes look crooked. Lol

Edit: Upon further inspection I noticed the schooner of beer, I restate that to read hb8.5

Definately bonus points.
 

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Wow, I figured the girl is a headturner because she has pretty eyes and fair skin giving her an "an angelic looking" appearance.
 

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lol, it's crazy how everyone here as completely different taste when it comes to b!tches...
 

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That first girl I would consider a poor Lindsay Lohan.

That second girl had a nice bod but her face dropped her a few points
 

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Crazy Asian said:
she looks even lower than a 7 to me in that pic.

i read a post about how the girl you think is too hot for you is actually not, cause every guy has different tastes. i guess its true.
Hey OK what about this pic of Kady:

http://www.americanidol.com/photos/?set=497&seq=0

I only chose this one because it's not airbrushed or anything like her picture on the main page probably is. But still, I don't see how she is only a 7 and the girl with the weird face is a 10. To each his own I guess. Though I'm still curious why you think Kady is a 7.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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ezily said:
Hey OK what about this pic of Kady:

http://www.americanidol.com/photos/?set=497&seq=0

I only chose this one because it's not airbrushed or anything like her picture on the main page probably is. But still, I don't see how she is only a 7 and the girl with the weird face is a 10. To each his own I guess. Though I'm still curious why you think Kady is a 7.
Idk. She doesn't do it for me either. She looks completely average to me. I would rate her a 7, too.
 

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ChrizZ said:
Idk. She doesn't do it for me either. She looks completely average to me. I would rate her a 7, too.
:crackup: that's cool. Who do you think is hot (i.e. a 10)? I mean I'm just having a hard time seeing how she's just average. You must come into contact with some really attractive girls. Sure she's only 18 and that picture doesn't really do her justice but still...
 

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you know, it's actually a good thing that everyone has their own tastes. Because if they didn't then everyone would be chasing the exact same girls. Look, personally I'm not a huge fan of blondes but they just look a little hotter to me. I'm not entirely sure why.

btw I would give Rose Byrne a 7.5.
 

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ezily said:
you know, it's actually a good thing that everyone has their own tastes. Because if they didn't then everyone would be chasing the exact same girls. Look, personally I'm not a huge fan of blondes but they just look a little hotter to me. I'm not entirely sure why.

btw I would give Rose Byrne a 7.5.
here, I posted what I think is a perfect 10 already...

ChrizZ said:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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