Señor Fingers
Master Don Juan
Just goes to show that looks don't really matter as much as we think.
For you she's HB10, but for me she is Bride of Chucky
For you she's HB10, but for me she is Bride of Chucky
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
O...M...G... hottest chick ever?
- Thread starter Crazy Asian
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Master Bates
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She has really pretty eyes, great hair, nice face, and the freckles are alright. Not a good shot of her body though. Definitely doable.
Rebound Material
Master Don Juan
I gotta say im a bit dissapointed. Freckles never actually appealed to me, in fact it turns me off. But hey, if you like what you see then all power to you.Crazy Asian said:
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Crazy Asian
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the body is awesome, but the face is like a 4!!!!ChrizZ said:
wtf.
Yuk! She looks like a malnourished tranny.ChrizZ said:
I'll give a few 10s out of various ethnicities and body types... Natalie Portman, Raquel Welch, Halle Berry, Winona Ryder, Tia Carrera, Beyonce, Debbie Harry... referring to them in their prime of course.
And it's not subjective, I'm right and anyone who disagrees with my choices is wrong.
stuka1939
Banned
Defintely attractive and probably better looking than alot of women.
A solid 8.
A solid 8.
just so suave
Senior Don Juan
Crazy Asian, i wouldn't even tap that, but if you lose you sh1t over her, fairplay 
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
she has that 7-7.5 wallflower look. Seems like a bad picture really. Not gorgeous but kinda cute. And her eyes look crooked. Lol
Edit: Upon further inspection I noticed the schooner of beer, I restate that to read hb8.5
Definately bonus points.
Edit: Upon further inspection I noticed the schooner of beer, I restate that to read hb8.5
Definately bonus points.
stuka1939
Banned
Wow, I figured the girl is a headturner because she has pretty eyes and fair skin giving her an "an angelic looking" appearance.
ezily
Senior Don Juan
Hey OK what about this pic of Kady:Crazy Asian said:
http://www.americanidol.com/photos/?set=497&seq=0
I only chose this one because it's not airbrushed or anything like her picture on the main page probably is. But still, I don't see how she is only a 7 and the girl with the weird face is a 10. To each his own I guess. Though I'm still curious why you think Kady is a 7.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
ezily
Senior Don Juan
:crackup: that's cool. Who do you think is hot (i.e. a 10)? I mean I'm just having a hard time seeing how she's just average. You must come into contact with some really attractive girls. Sure she's only 18 and that picture doesn't really do her justice but still...ChrizZ said:
wootapotky
Senior Don Juan
Hmm, I'd say a 6-7. And for Kady Malloy a 7.
Personally I like Rose Byrne.
http://us.imdb.com/media/rm1243453952/nm0126284
Is she a 10 to me? For now, at least. In a couple of months maybe not.
Personally I like Rose Byrne.
http://us.imdb.com/media/rm1243453952/nm0126284
Is she a 10 to me? For now, at least. In a couple of months maybe not.
ezily
Senior Don Juan
you know, it's actually a good thing that everyone has their own tastes. Because if they didn't then everyone would be chasing the exact same girls. Look, personally I'm not a huge fan of blondes but they just look a little hotter to me. I'm not entirely sure why.
btw I would give Rose Byrne a 7.5.
btw I would give Rose Byrne a 7.5.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.