Señor Fingers
Master Don Juan
Just goes to show that looks don't really matter as much as we think.
For you she's HB10, but for me she is Bride of Chucky
For you she's HB10, but for me she is Bride of Chucky
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I gotta say im a bit dissapointed. Freckles never actually appealed to me, in fact it turns me off. But hey, if you like what you see then all power to you.Crazy Asian said:
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
the body is awesome, but the face is like a 4!!!!ChrizZ said:
Yuk! She looks like a malnourished tranny.ChrizZ said:
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Hey OK what about this pic of Kady:Crazy Asian said:she looks even lower than a 7 to me in that pic.
i read a post about how the girl you think is too hot for you is actually not, cause every guy has different tastes. i guess its true.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Idk. She doesn't do it for me either. She looks completely average to me. I would rate her a 7, too.ezily said:Hey OK what about this pic of Kady:
http://www.americanidol.com/photos/?set=497&seq=0
I only chose this one because it's not airbrushed or anything like her picture on the main page probably is. But still, I don't see how she is only a 7 and the girl with the weird face is a 10. To each his own I guess. Though I'm still curious why you think Kady is a 7.
:crackup: that's cool. Who do you think is hot (i.e. a 10)? I mean I'm just having a hard time seeing how she's just average. You must come into contact with some really attractive girls. Sure she's only 18 and that picture doesn't really do her justice but still...ChrizZ said:Idk. She doesn't do it for me either. She looks completely average to me. I would rate her a 7, too.
here, I posted what I think is a perfect 10 already...ezily said:you know, it's actually a good thing that everyone has their own tastes. Because if they didn't then everyone would be chasing the exact same girls. Look, personally I'm not a huge fan of blondes but they just look a little hotter to me. I'm not entirely sure why.
btw I would give Rose Byrne a 7.5.
ChrizZ said:
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.