Crazy Asian
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Jan 29, 2007
- Messages
- 1,060
- Reaction score
- 9
- Age
- 34
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
aw man, are u guys serious?HandyAndy said:ew? id give her a 6.5
lol wut?Michele said:AHAHAHHAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH OH MY GOD HAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAAHHAAHAH HE'S SERIOUS!!! HAAHAHAHAHAHHAHAAHHAAHAHAHHAHHAAHAHAHAHHAAHAHAHHHAAHAHAHAHAHAH
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i can go on.
hell yeah brothabrett012 said:you're not weird, I would give her a 10 too. Something to do with the freckles.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
dogg... i ALMOST dated a chick that looked like kady malloy and was the nicest chick you'd ever meet... oh my god... gorgeous.ezily said:yeah only a 6.5 or so. Come on. Look at Kady Malloy (girl on American Idol) if you want to see a 10.
ezily said:yeah only a 6.5 or so. Come on. Look at Kady Malloy (girl on American Idol) if you want to see a 10.
ARE YOU KIDDING ME??? I guess that's your opinion but still... here look at this pic:Crazy Asian said:i looked her up, i'd give her a 7.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Yes, mad gay.krazyboy99 said:also the title of this thread is mad gay
she looks even lower than a 7 to me in that pic.ezily said:ARE YOU KIDDING ME??? I guess that's your opinion but still... here look at this pic:
http://www.rickey.org/?cat=192
Why is the girl you picked hotter in your mind? I'm curious.
Oh and Arcangelo, you are a very lucky man.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.