Crazy Asian
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Jan 29, 2007
- Messages
- 1,060
- Reaction score
- 9
- Age
- 34
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
aw man, are u guys serious?HandyAndy said:ew? id give her a 6.5
lol wut?Michele said:AHAHAHHAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH OH MY GOD HAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAAHHAAHAH HE'S SERIOUS!!! HAAHAHAHAHAHHAHAAHHAAHAHAHHAHHAAHAHAHAHHAAHAHAHHHAAHAHAHAHAHAH
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i can go on.
hell yeah brothabrett012 said:you're not weird, I would give her a 10 too. Something to do with the freckles.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
dogg... i ALMOST dated a chick that looked like kady malloy and was the nicest chick you'd ever meet... oh my god... gorgeous.ezily said:yeah only a 6.5 or so. Come on. Look at Kady Malloy (girl on American Idol) if you want to see a 10.
ezily said:yeah only a 6.5 or so. Come on. Look at Kady Malloy (girl on American Idol) if you want to see a 10.
ARE YOU KIDDING ME??? I guess that's your opinion but still... here look at this pic:Crazy Asian said:i looked her up, i'd give her a 7.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Yes, mad gay.krazyboy99 said:also the title of this thread is mad gay
she looks even lower than a 7 to me in that pic.ezily said:ARE YOU KIDDING ME??? I guess that's your opinion but still... here look at this pic:
http://www.rickey.org/?cat=192
Why is the girl you picked hotter in your mind? I'm curious.
Oh and Arcangelo, you are a very lucky man.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.