"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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O...M...G... hottest chick ever?

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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i guess every guy has different tastes...
i would give her a 10.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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HandyAndy said:
ew? id give her a 6.5
aw man, are u guys serious?
i've only seen about 3-4 women that i would give a 10 and she's one of them.

damn u guys have bad taste.... or it's just that i'm weird :crazy:
 

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AHAHAHHAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH OH MY GOD HAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAAHHAAHAH HE'S SERIOUS!!! HAAHAHAHAHAHHAHAAHHAAHAHAHHAHHAAHAHAHAHHAAHAHAHHHAAHAHAHAHAHAH
AHAHAHHAAHAHAHAHAHHAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAAAHAHHAHAHHHHAHHAAHHHAHAAHAHAHAHAHAHAH
HAAHAHHAAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAHHAH

i can go on.
 

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Michele said:
AHAHAHHAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH OH MY GOD HAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAAHHAAHAH HE'S SERIOUS!!! HAAHAHAHAHAHHAHAAHHAAHAHAHHAHHAAHAHAHAHHAAHAHAHHHAAHAHAHAHAHAH
AHAHAHHAAHAHAHAHAHHAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAAAHAHHAHAHHHHAHHAAHHHAHAAHAHAHAHAHAHAH
HAAHAHHAAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAHHAH

i can go on.
lol wut?
 

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brett012 said:
you're not weird, I would give her a 10 too. Something to do with the freckles.
hell yeah brotha :up:
 

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Id hit it, but ive seen better.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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yeah only a 6.5 or so. Come on. Look at Kady Malloy (girl on American Idol) if you want to see a 10.
 

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It's subjective................ If you think she's a 10 then she is a 10.


She's cute but I would give her about a 7.5 according to my taste.
 

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ezily said:
yeah only a 6.5 or so. Come on. Look at Kady Malloy (girl on American Idol) if you want to see a 10.
dogg... i ALMOST dated a chick that looked like kady malloy and was the nicest chick you'd ever meet... oh my god... gorgeous.

:cuss: :cry:
 

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ezily said:
yeah only a 6.5 or so. Come on. Look at Kady Malloy (girl on American Idol) if you want to see a 10.

i looked her up, i'd give her a 7.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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HB 7.5 I guess.

She looks kind of like a second rate Sylvia Saint.

She'd move up to HB 8 status if the picture was airbrushed.
 

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ezily said:
ARE YOU KIDDING ME??? I guess that's your opinion but still... here look at this pic:

http://www.rickey.org/?cat=192

Why is the girl you picked hotter in your mind? I'm curious.

Oh and Arcangelo, you are a very lucky man.
she looks even lower than a 7 to me in that pic.

i read a post about how the girl you think is too hot for you is actually not, cause every guy has different tastes. i guess its true.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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