"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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O...M...G... hottest chick ever?

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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i guess every guy has different tastes...
i would give her a 10.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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HandyAndy said:
ew? id give her a 6.5
aw man, are u guys serious?
i've only seen about 3-4 women that i would give a 10 and she's one of them.

damn u guys have bad taste.... or it's just that i'm weird :crazy:
 

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AHAHAHHAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH OH MY GOD HAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAAHHAAHAH HE'S SERIOUS!!! HAAHAHAHAHAHHAHAAHHAAHAHAHHAHHAAHAHAHAHHAAHAHAHHHAAHAHAHAHAHAH
AHAHAHHAAHAHAHAHAHHAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAAAHAHHAHAHHHHAHHAAHHHAHAAHAHAHAHAHAHAH
HAAHAHHAAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAHHAH

i can go on.
 

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Michele said:
AHAHAHHAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH OH MY GOD HAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAAHHAAHAH HE'S SERIOUS!!! HAAHAHAHAHAHHAHAAHHAAHAHAHHAHHAAHAHAHAHHAAHAHAHHHAAHAHAHAHAHAH
AHAHAHHAAHAHAHAHAHHAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAAAHAHHAHAHHHHAHHAAHHHAHAAHAHAHAHAHAHAH
HAAHAHHAAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAHHAH

i can go on.
lol wut?
 

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brett012 said:
you're not weird, I would give her a 10 too. Something to do with the freckles.
hell yeah brotha :up:
 

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Id hit it, but ive seen better.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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yeah only a 6.5 or so. Come on. Look at Kady Malloy (girl on American Idol) if you want to see a 10.
 

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It's subjective................ If you think she's a 10 then she is a 10.


She's cute but I would give her about a 7.5 according to my taste.
 

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ezily said:
yeah only a 6.5 or so. Come on. Look at Kady Malloy (girl on American Idol) if you want to see a 10.
dogg... i ALMOST dated a chick that looked like kady malloy and was the nicest chick you'd ever meet... oh my god... gorgeous.

:cuss: :cry:
 

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yeah only a 6.5 or so. Come on. Look at Kady Malloy (girl on American Idol) if you want to see a 10.

i looked her up, i'd give her a 7.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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HB 7.5 I guess.

She looks kind of like a second rate Sylvia Saint.

She'd move up to HB 8 status if the picture was airbrushed.
 

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ezily said:
ARE YOU KIDDING ME??? I guess that's your opinion but still... here look at this pic:

http://www.rickey.org/?cat=192

Why is the girl you picked hotter in your mind? I'm curious.

Oh and Arcangelo, you are a very lucky man.
she looks even lower than a 7 to me in that pic.

i read a post about how the girl you think is too hot for you is actually not, cause every guy has different tastes. i guess its true.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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