"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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O...M...G... hottest chick ever?

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Crazy Asian

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i guess every guy has different tastes...
i would give her a 10.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Crazy Asian

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HandyAndy said:
ew? id give her a 6.5
aw man, are u guys serious?
i've only seen about 3-4 women that i would give a 10 and she's one of them.

damn u guys have bad taste.... or it's just that i'm weird :crazy:
 

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AHAHAHHAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH OH MY GOD HAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAAHHAAHAH HE'S SERIOUS!!! HAAHAHAHAHAHHAHAAHHAAHAHAHHAHHAAHAHAHAHHAAHAHAHHHAAHAHAHAHAHAH
AHAHAHHAAHAHAHAHAHHAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAAAHAHHAHAHHHHAHHAAHHHAHAAHAHAHAHAHAHAH
HAAHAHHAAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAHHAH

i can go on.
 

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Michele said:
AHAHAHHAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH OH MY GOD HAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAAHHAAHAH HE'S SERIOUS!!! HAAHAHAHAHAHHAHAAHHAAHAHAHHAHHAAHAHAHAHHAAHAHAHHHAAHAHAHAHAHAH
AHAHAHHAAHAHAHAHAHHAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAAAHAHHAHAHHHHAHHAAHHHAHAAHAHAHAHAHAHAH
HAAHAHHAAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAHHAH

i can go on.
lol wut?
 

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brett012 said:
you're not weird, I would give her a 10 too. Something to do with the freckles.
hell yeah brotha :up:
 

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Id hit it, but ive seen better.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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yeah only a 6.5 or so. Come on. Look at Kady Malloy (girl on American Idol) if you want to see a 10.
 

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It's subjective................ If you think she's a 10 then she is a 10.


She's cute but I would give her about a 7.5 according to my taste.
 

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ezily said:
yeah only a 6.5 or so. Come on. Look at Kady Malloy (girl on American Idol) if you want to see a 10.
dogg... i ALMOST dated a chick that looked like kady malloy and was the nicest chick you'd ever meet... oh my god... gorgeous.

:cuss: :cry:
 

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ezily said:
yeah only a 6.5 or so. Come on. Look at Kady Malloy (girl on American Idol) if you want to see a 10.

i looked her up, i'd give her a 7.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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HB 7.5 I guess.

She looks kind of like a second rate Sylvia Saint.

She'd move up to HB 8 status if the picture was airbrushed.
 

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ezily said:
ARE YOU KIDDING ME??? I guess that's your opinion but still... here look at this pic:

http://www.rickey.org/?cat=192

Why is the girl you picked hotter in your mind? I'm curious.

Oh and Arcangelo, you are a very lucky man.
she looks even lower than a 7 to me in that pic.

i read a post about how the girl you think is too hot for you is actually not, cause every guy has different tastes. i guess its true.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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