DJ_in_making
Master Don Juan
Are there any wingmans in NY around 18 or 19?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
NYC Wngman
- Thread starter DJ_in_making
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
DJ_in_making
Master Don Juan
*bump*
KingBeef
Master Don Juan
anyone else from nyc????
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
KingBeef
Master Don Juan
Where in queens Kel??? I'm between astoria and woodside 
And what clubs you go to...DNA, blue moose, etc.??? :woo:
And what clubs you go to...DNA, blue moose, etc.??? :woo:
pimpinainteasybros
Don Juan
I go to bars in clubs in Manhattan. Will be hitting the Meatpacking District Friday happy hour and evening. Target rich, bros.
AIR-PILOT
Don Juan
DNA if ur looking for 16 year olds...Originally posted by KingBeef
Where in queens Kel??? I'm between astoria and woodside
And what clubs you go to...DNA, blue moose, etc.??? :woo:
CENTRAL , CAPRICE in Astoria is good.
JDrockstar
New Member
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Hey DJs,
Im from Africa and hitting NYC from 1st to 8th Jan. Im no pro - new to the structure of pickups but I get by (accent helps). Im game to check out a few bars/clubs there so give me a message if anyone is keen.
Im 21 by the way.
-JD
Hey DJs,
Im from Africa and hitting NYC from 1st to 8th Jan. Im no pro - new to the structure of pickups but I get by (accent helps). Im game to check out a few bars/clubs there so give me a message if anyone is keen.
Im 21 by the way.
-JD
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Hunterchilla
Don Juan
Hi im 20, from manhattan email me im down to be a wingman,
i dont have any ID , so we prob gonna hit up the 18+ type clubs/lounges ;0
email me [email protected]
i dont have any ID , so we prob gonna hit up the 18+ type clubs/lounges ;0
email me [email protected]
BlackAccord
Don Juan
19 from jersey but i go up to nyc all the time for parties and junk
hit me up if you guys have like a group sarging night or something
hit me up if you guys have like a group sarging night or something