DJ_in_making
Master Don Juan
Are there any wingmans in NY around 18 or 19?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
NYC Wngman
- Thread starter DJ_in_making
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
DJ_in_making
Master Don Juan
*bump*
KingBeef
Master Don Juan
anyone else from nyc????
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
KingBeef
Master Don Juan
Where in queens Kel??? I'm between astoria and woodside 
And what clubs you go to...DNA, blue moose, etc.??? :woo:
And what clubs you go to...DNA, blue moose, etc.??? :woo:
pimpinainteasybros
Don Juan
I go to bars in clubs in Manhattan. Will be hitting the Meatpacking District Friday happy hour and evening. Target rich, bros.
AIR-PILOT
Don Juan
DNA if ur looking for 16 year olds...Originally posted by KingBeef
Where in queens Kel??? I'm between astoria and woodside
And what clubs you go to...DNA, blue moose, etc.??? :woo:
CENTRAL , CAPRICE in Astoria is good.
JDrockstar
New Member
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Hey DJs,
Im from Africa and hitting NYC from 1st to 8th Jan. Im no pro - new to the structure of pickups but I get by (accent helps). Im game to check out a few bars/clubs there so give me a message if anyone is keen.
Im 21 by the way.
-JD
Hey DJs,
Im from Africa and hitting NYC from 1st to 8th Jan. Im no pro - new to the structure of pickups but I get by (accent helps). Im game to check out a few bars/clubs there so give me a message if anyone is keen.
Im 21 by the way.
-JD
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Hunterchilla
Don Juan
Hi im 20, from manhattan email me im down to be a wingman,
i dont have any ID , so we prob gonna hit up the 18+ type clubs/lounges ;0
email me [email protected]
i dont have any ID , so we prob gonna hit up the 18+ type clubs/lounges ;0
email me [email protected]
BlackAccord
Don Juan
19 from jersey but i go up to nyc all the time for parties and junk
hit me up if you guys have like a group sarging night or something
hit me up if you guys have like a group sarging night or something