DJ_in_making
Master Don Juan
Are there any wingmans in NY around 18 or 19?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
NYC Wngman
- Thread starter DJ_in_making
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
DJ_in_making
Master Don Juan
*bump*
KingBeef
Master Don Juan
anyone else from nyc????
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
KingBeef
Master Don Juan
Where in queens Kel??? I'm between astoria and woodside 
And what clubs you go to...DNA, blue moose, etc.??? :woo:
And what clubs you go to...DNA, blue moose, etc.??? :woo:
pimpinainteasybros
Don Juan
I go to bars in clubs in Manhattan. Will be hitting the Meatpacking District Friday happy hour and evening. Target rich, bros.
AIR-PILOT
Don Juan
DNA if ur looking for 16 year olds...Originally posted by KingBeef
Where in queens Kel??? I'm between astoria and woodside
And what clubs you go to...DNA, blue moose, etc.??? :woo:
CENTRAL , CAPRICE in Astoria is good.
JDrockstar
New Member
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Hey DJs,
Im from Africa and hitting NYC from 1st to 8th Jan. Im no pro - new to the structure of pickups but I get by (accent helps). Im game to check out a few bars/clubs there so give me a message if anyone is keen.
Im 21 by the way.
-JD
Hey DJs,
Im from Africa and hitting NYC from 1st to 8th Jan. Im no pro - new to the structure of pickups but I get by (accent helps). Im game to check out a few bars/clubs there so give me a message if anyone is keen.
Im 21 by the way.
-JD
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Hunterchilla
Don Juan
Hi im 20, from manhattan email me im down to be a wingman,
i dont have any ID , so we prob gonna hit up the 18+ type clubs/lounges ;0
email me [email protected]
i dont have any ID , so we prob gonna hit up the 18+ type clubs/lounges ;0
email me [email protected]
BlackAccord
Don Juan
19 from jersey but i go up to nyc all the time for parties and junk
hit me up if you guys have like a group sarging night or something
hit me up if you guys have like a group sarging night or something