DJ_in_making
Master Don Juan
Are there any wingmans in NY around 18 or 19?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
NYC Wngman
- Thread starter DJ_in_making
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
DJ_in_making
Master Don Juan
*bump*
KingBeef
Master Don Juan
anyone else from nyc????
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
KingBeef
Master Don Juan
Where in queens Kel??? I'm between astoria and woodside 
And what clubs you go to...DNA, blue moose, etc.??? :woo:
And what clubs you go to...DNA, blue moose, etc.??? :woo:
pimpinainteasybros
Don Juan
I go to bars in clubs in Manhattan. Will be hitting the Meatpacking District Friday happy hour and evening. Target rich, bros.
AIR-PILOT
Don Juan
DNA if ur looking for 16 year olds...Originally posted by KingBeef
Where in queens Kel??? I'm between astoria and woodside
And what clubs you go to...DNA, blue moose, etc.??? :woo:
CENTRAL , CAPRICE in Astoria is good.
JDrockstar
New Member
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Hey DJs,
Im from Africa and hitting NYC from 1st to 8th Jan. Im no pro - new to the structure of pickups but I get by (accent helps). Im game to check out a few bars/clubs there so give me a message if anyone is keen.
Im 21 by the way.
-JD
Hey DJs,
Im from Africa and hitting NYC from 1st to 8th Jan. Im no pro - new to the structure of pickups but I get by (accent helps). Im game to check out a few bars/clubs there so give me a message if anyone is keen.
Im 21 by the way.
-JD
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Hunterchilla
Don Juan
Hi im 20, from manhattan email me im down to be a wingman,
i dont have any ID , so we prob gonna hit up the 18+ type clubs/lounges ;0
email me [email protected]
i dont have any ID , so we prob gonna hit up the 18+ type clubs/lounges ;0
email me [email protected]
BlackAccord
Don Juan
19 from jersey but i go up to nyc all the time for parties and junk
hit me up if you guys have like a group sarging night or something
hit me up if you guys have like a group sarging night or something