"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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NYC Wngman

DJ_in_making

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Are there any wingmans in NY around 18 or 19?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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DJ_in_making

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*bump*
 

bakaten

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Kel from queens here.
19 lookin for wingman to hit clubs and parties.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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KingBeef

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Where in queens Kel??? I'm between astoria and woodside :D

And what clubs you go to...DNA, blue moose, etc.??? :woo:
 

kk2004

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hm...

flushing queens... thats where im at
 
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I go to bars in clubs in Manhattan. Will be hitting the Meatpacking District Friday happy hour and evening. Target rich, bros.
 

AIR-PILOT

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Originally posted by KingBeef
Where in queens Kel??? I'm between astoria and woodside :D

And what clubs you go to...DNA, blue moose, etc.??? :woo:
DNA if ur looking for 16 year olds...
CENTRAL , CAPRICE in Astoria is good.
 

JDrockstar

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Visit

Hey DJs,
Im from Africa and hitting NYC from 1st to 8th Jan. Im no pro - new to the structure of pickups but I get by (accent helps). Im game to check out a few bars/clubs there so give me a message if anyone is keen.
Im 21 by the way.

-JD
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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BlackAccord

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19 from jersey but i go up to nyc all the time for parties and junk

hit me up if you guys have like a group sarging night or something
 

Way

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Hey. Also 19 from Jersey, but I work in the city. Email/PM if you wanna head out sometime.
 
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