"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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NYC Wngman

DJ_in_making

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Are there any wingmans in NY around 18 or 19?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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DJ_in_making

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*bump*
 

bakaten

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Kel from queens here.
19 lookin for wingman to hit clubs and parties.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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KingBeef

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Where in queens Kel??? I'm between astoria and woodside :D

And what clubs you go to...DNA, blue moose, etc.??? :woo:
 

kk2004

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hm...

flushing queens... thats where im at
 
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I go to bars in clubs in Manhattan. Will be hitting the Meatpacking District Friday happy hour and evening. Target rich, bros.
 

AIR-PILOT

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Originally posted by KingBeef
Where in queens Kel??? I'm between astoria and woodside :D

And what clubs you go to...DNA, blue moose, etc.??? :woo:
DNA if ur looking for 16 year olds...
CENTRAL , CAPRICE in Astoria is good.
 

JDrockstar

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Visit

Hey DJs,
Im from Africa and hitting NYC from 1st to 8th Jan. Im no pro - new to the structure of pickups but I get by (accent helps). Im game to check out a few bars/clubs there so give me a message if anyone is keen.
Im 21 by the way.

-JD
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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BlackAccord

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19 from jersey but i go up to nyc all the time for parties and junk

hit me up if you guys have like a group sarging night or something
 

Way

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Hey. Also 19 from Jersey, but I work in the city. Email/PM if you wanna head out sometime.
 
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